hubs just dropped a bomb on me--wants US to host christmas. uh, gulp. My folks came over thanksgiving, and I was looking forward to a very quiet peaceful christmas with just the 4 of us. after the lodge season, i am still suffering from severe overload in the crowd/people dept. i mean, i am seriously happy about the thought of a blizzard and being holed in for months.
i can do crowds ok, long's they're not at MY house. then its :hand: no way. that part makes my skin crawl and heart race and breathing short. he simply asked me to think about it and i'm freaking out here.
he wants it for his family, including the sister and mother who've carped on me more times than I would allow ANY other being on earth, allowed simply for his sake. (in which I'm put down for defending myself, nor does he back me up either.) plus many others that i barely know at all.
i detest his sister, and can just tolerate his mother. add to it these ppl NEVER go home at a decent time, they stay and stay and eat and eat and stay a bit more. its almost like they are trying to milk it for all its worth. probably cuz I never invite them over, but that's cuz they stay far too long, and on and on!! and really, who wants to invite someone over who's been totally evil towards them??! :umno:
i have to come up with some compromise here. maybe just his mom and her boyfriend. I simply cannot fathom doing the whole big party gig, with THOSE ppl at least. oh help!!
i can do crowds ok, long's they're not at MY house. then its :hand: no way. that part makes my skin crawl and heart race and breathing short. he simply asked me to think about it and i'm freaking out here.
he wants it for his family, including the sister and mother who've carped on me more times than I would allow ANY other being on earth, allowed simply for his sake. (in which I'm put down for defending myself, nor does he back me up either.) plus many others that i barely know at all.
i detest his sister, and can just tolerate his mother. add to it these ppl NEVER go home at a decent time, they stay and stay and eat and eat and stay a bit more. its almost like they are trying to milk it for all its worth. probably cuz I never invite them over, but that's cuz they stay far too long, and on and on!! and really, who wants to invite someone over who's been totally evil towards them??! :umno:
i have to come up with some compromise here. maybe just his mom and her boyfriend. I simply cannot fathom doing the whole big party gig, with THOSE ppl at least. oh help!!