"Do we think we're special?" I believe the question is phrased wrong. Most people who live in places with relative stability, whether governmental, cultural, seismic, or meteorologic; don't think they are special, they just tend to take for granted that "things out of our ordinary experience don't happen here". It's a low effort way to look at their world, with an implicit trust that others will take responsibility for anything out of the well accustomed ordinary. Ask the folks in Juarez what is "ordinary", and you will get far different answers than someone from Juneau, or Jaharta. A blast in Alepo that kills 3 and injures over a hundred is sadly quite ordinary. A drone that kills 30 and injures 100 in Pakistan is not even news in the US, but is becoming "ordinary" there. It simply becomes a matter of perspective.
When and wherever the non-ordinary things eventually do happen, the ptb do everything possible to reinforce that "we are in control", even when it is obvious that they are reeling from and as powerless in the situation the average guy or gal on the street. The idea is to repeat the lie often enough to re-convince most of those who want to believe it. Eventually, the brute force of the resources at their disposal usually contribute to making things more orderly, even if not better for those directly effected. Anyone with half a gram of observation skills can name at least half a dozen places from the recent news where the "unexpected" happened, the gov immediately claims they are in control, and that is an outright lie - snowstorms in the northern US where plows were ordered off the roads, tornadoes in the south; earthquakes in Iraq and China; civil unrest in Syria and Egypt; bangs in Boston and Texas - no control over the actual events whatsoever, only attempts after the facts to put some semblance of order over the chaos. Their eventual success (or failure) depends entirely on the resources available and whether the chaos abates. What happens if (or when) the resources aren't available? What if some version of the chaos becomes the new normal? A foot or two of snow in a day is normal for some, if it only happens once or twice a winter. A foot a day for 20 of 30 days probably isn't. Six inches of rain a day is normal for some, and for others, 6 inches per year is normal. Gunshots and killings in some neighborhoods are normal, even where guns aren't legal, and in some neighborhoods, gunshots everyday with noone killed are the norm, because people aren't targets.
I know I'm special, but that's proven because I don't think (or act) like those who think they are immune to any or all the 'bad nasties' that happen 'somewhere else'. There is nowhere that is completely safe. No matter where I am, I'm eventually downwind of nuclear fallout, and other than KPo for the short term, there is very little I can do to mitigate that risk, especially for a large scale event. I know that if I wander through the pasture across the road that contains over 100 cows and at least a couple bulls thinking "no danger here", I stand an equal chance of getting hurt as thinking "no danger here" while walking through the lower east side of Chicago (or Johannesburg, or Dubai). If I am not well aware of my surroundings at all times; if I don't know all of my immediate neighbors well enough to know explicitly and implicitly who can be trusted with my life and who can't, as well as some in the wider community, there is no amount of the 3 B's that will keep me safe, especially over a long term.
Depending on your spiritual perspective, the only way you are safe from all potential physical harm, is death. Regardless of the place you live, the life you live, and/or the preps you have, there is no escape from death. Period. So from my perspective, as a very first prep, I need to be prepared for that eventuality. Everything else is gravy.