Just curious to know how many of you actually up and left the rat race and moved to the country to homestead? What was your biggest mistake/regret?
The last go round of upkeep/my efforts made the place too "pretty". I should have never started down the path of improving the looks of things. I done it all (work) myself, was a lot but didn't take a lot of money. Now it's just too damn pretty. I've posted pics before on here and will post them again, but it's just too damn pretty.
I wanted a milk cow in the yard, pigs off the side of the house. Vineyard/orchard in front yard, metal building in side yard. Now all of that stuff is about 80-90 yards away because the place looks too pretty. Oh, the little guest house was going to get some trees whacked down around it and a greenhouse installed right next to it. I was going to sell honey and some produce out of there. Now it's a "pool house" and a nice guest house. All of our out of state family loves to stop by here (Nashville area) all the time now and stay in our guest house. I end up with way too many guests. Wife wanted a pool at the time for our 3 kids...
WAY TOO DAMN PRETTY AROUND HERE! Don't fall for it.
Wife after I put in pool at guest house and extended deck on back of guest house to new pool: "We need an entrance from the
front of the guest house to the back deck and pool so everyone doesn't have to walk through guest house or around it"....so then I had to build this (she wanted a ramp).
Woods/brush came right up to the back of the guest house. With the new pool idea we (we = "I" btw) had to start clearing out brush to beat back the bugs...this is how pretty it turned out to be behind guest house: Note the brush use to come to within 6-8 ft off the back of guest house deck.
Oh, and this lovely stream we have off our side yard. It was brushed in heavily. You really couldn't tell there was a stream there it was so brushed in. A stranger wouldn't even know there was a creek there until my wife said: "You know the 3 kids are starting to play in that creek all the time now. With all the copperheads and rattlesnakes we have I am thinking that we (we = me) should clear out some brush to at least give them a chance to see a snake vs stepping on it and getting bitten". Pic below is in 2nd yr effort at cleaning it up. A year earlier you could be standing in same spot the pic was taken and really not be able to see the creek anywhere up through there.
Wife: "You know I was looking for a board in our lumber pile today and I noticed we have enough rough cut cedar boards to make a few raised beds and put in the side fenced in yard for me (really me) to raise greens in vs in the big garden out back. Why don't we (me) build a few". I did...and then she said "You know those would look great if you stained them the same color as the house, and I think we (me) have some stain left over". So I stained them.
You know what's really cool about it all? We live 500 yards or so back in the woods and nobody sees this place besides for us, the mail lady, and UPS/FedEx delivery drivers. We've got a ton of curb appeal but no curb. All of this work including me stripping and staining both homes and painting the entire inside of both happened over the past 3-4 years.
Guest house before:
Yeah I carried in all those rocks around guest house out of creek to make those raised beds in the front.
Main house looked just like like guest house before I spent 140 hours stripping and putting 2 coats of stain on it....been 3-4 years and many pounds shed (I'm 49 and weigh the same as I did at age 14) with all the work. That's not even counting all the time I put into critters, firewood, 3000 sqft garden, etc.
Don't make it ALL pretty. You can have a pretty wildflower area, a pretty porch, a pretty "this and that", but if you make it all pretty it will be a lot of work and you will not want to mess the prettiness up. It use to be "blah" here, now it's way too damn pretty and I blame it all on my wife (lol). Sure I wanted to create a place like this for her and the kids, but man it's just too damn pretty to be practical.