Our house in the burbs has a mother-in-law apartment. About a year and a half ago, I rented the apartment to a friend of my son. A young woman he had met through work.
She is a nice enough young woman, and it is nice to have someone bring in the mail when we spend a lot of time at our ranch. Anyway, she was only going to be here a few months. It is a month to month rental, and I charge her only a fraction of fair market rates. We are doing this as a favor to her. The plan was that after she moved out, we could fix up. Repaint, and rent the apartment for what it is worth. Ths would nearly cover our mortgage. But the few months she was supposed to be there have stretched to over a year. Her job has decreased her hours tremendously.
Last week she mentioned that she might want to get a roommate, and he would pay rent too. I said that he couldn't move in until Hubby and I had met him, had him fill out an application, give us references, give me time to check him out, etc. But she moved him in. I saw a guy with dreadlocks down to his butt, and a metal ring in his nose coming and going, and confronted her. Yes, she said she was allowing him to live with her. So I talked to him. No money for rent. No references. No names or phone numbers of previous landlords for me to verify payment history. He says he is 30 years old, and has only ever lived with his parents until recently when he left his home in New York, and decided to live in California. No job, no plans, no assets.
So she moved him into our apartment without knowing anything about him, against our express wishes. So not only are we evicting him, we will be evicting her too.
We have a PrePaidLegal membership. Tomorrow I'll call to make sure I'm doing the eviction right. Dotting every I. Crossing every t.
This isn't the first time she went against our wishes. She brought home a chihuahua after being told she couldn't have pets. I caved in then. And came to regret it. Her philosophy is that it is better to ask forgiveness than it is to ask permission. But in both of these cases, permission had already been denied.
Hopefully this will be a learning experience for her. I know it sure has been for me!
She is a nice enough young woman, and it is nice to have someone bring in the mail when we spend a lot of time at our ranch. Anyway, she was only going to be here a few months. It is a month to month rental, and I charge her only a fraction of fair market rates. We are doing this as a favor to her. The plan was that after she moved out, we could fix up. Repaint, and rent the apartment for what it is worth. Ths would nearly cover our mortgage. But the few months she was supposed to be there have stretched to over a year. Her job has decreased her hours tremendously.
Last week she mentioned that she might want to get a roommate, and he would pay rent too. I said that he couldn't move in until Hubby and I had met him, had him fill out an application, give us references, give me time to check him out, etc. But she moved him in. I saw a guy with dreadlocks down to his butt, and a metal ring in his nose coming and going, and confronted her. Yes, she said she was allowing him to live with her. So I talked to him. No money for rent. No references. No names or phone numbers of previous landlords for me to verify payment history. He says he is 30 years old, and has only ever lived with his parents until recently when he left his home in New York, and decided to live in California. No job, no plans, no assets.
So she moved him into our apartment without knowing anything about him, against our express wishes. So not only are we evicting him, we will be evicting her too.
We have a PrePaidLegal membership. Tomorrow I'll call to make sure I'm doing the eviction right. Dotting every I. Crossing every t.
This isn't the first time she went against our wishes. She brought home a chihuahua after being told she couldn't have pets. I caved in then. And came to regret it. Her philosophy is that it is better to ask forgiveness than it is to ask permission. But in both of these cases, permission had already been denied.
Hopefully this will be a learning experience for her. I know it sure has been for me!