I can't offer any medical advice, but I will sure pray that you are given the strength to get through these trials.
Culpepper gave you some GREAT advice!
I would suggest utilizing NOURISHING Herbs at this time. Nourish your poor overwhelmed body and mind.
OATSTRAW and MILKY OATS
Have you looked into a low carb diet? I know many people keep their type 2 diabetes under control with a low carb diet and some people with lupus find it helpful as well. It also is good at reducing inflammation. I would really look at diet changes that will reduce inflammation.
Extra virgin coconut oil might help with the eczema (and will give you energy).
You can use it either way, but you probably get more bang for the buck by eating it. A lot of people put some in their coffee or in a smoothie. It's also great for frying. You can also make chocolate bark - coconut oil, splenda or other non-caloric sweetener, and chocolate. Add nuts if you have them. Put in the refrigerator for a little while and eat like fudge.I will give the EVCO a try as I need to moisturize right after my shower...( oh..do you mean to use it for cooking? mositurizing or both?)