I noted earlier today my neighbor "L" (upper 70's)appears to be losing her ability to concentrate. She asked to see how a puter works, offered to supply me with her nephews email address so they could communicate whenever needed. Very understandable, shes from a far away place, but understands electronic communications are instant. She is 'old school', she will not even sit on the back porch unless Fla Gal is home, as if I were a threat to her feminine orientation. I can't even threaten my self, much less others at this age. I will give her my email address to snail mail her relatives and offer to convey messages when necessary; when she chooses to leave the face of this Earth, it will be kind for someone to notify her relatives. The real challenge is when am I going to become this disassociated with life? I have prime examples displaying their situtations right now, what am I supposed to learn from them?