It has always been me pushing to get the HE11 out of here and head to the country but since our latest break-in on Friday my WIFE is pushing to do a little work on the house,sell it and get out. Funny thing is I am now the one trying to slow things down a little. . I think we need to not rush into selling as right now in our present situation we are making enough money to be able to pay for BOTH this house and a nice little farm somewhere. I do feel helpless in the sense I KNOW there is little I can do to reassure my wife-she is afraid to be home by herself(I understand this completely,it was a violation of OUR personal space) and the dog we have is not much help(she was INSIDE the house when it was robbed ) Not really looking for a solution but it is a quandary. I DO feel if we just found a place in the country it would help a lot as it would be a big step towards our dreams. We are both VERY disillusioned with this area.