Quality of Life article

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  1. longshadowfarms

    longshadowfarms Well-Known Member

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    The euthanasia topic that GM had as a sticky a month or two ago seems to have been lost. We've been struggling with this issue with our almost 14 yr old Lab lately but I STILL wasn't seeing what I needed to see. A friend sent me this article yesterday and WOW, did it ever open my eyes! It really did put into perspective a few thoughts that have been niggling at me, esp about Piper. Josh is much more clear. Once I really paid attention, it was very clear that he seems less happy than happy. My DH pointed out a few days ago that he's happy when he's eating or being petted but that is it. Piper seems so happy at times but after reading this article, it is clear that she's masking a lot more pain than I realized. She wants comfort almost constantly lately (there's one hint), yet I have to be very careful where I touch her as there are many spots where she really flinches. She really has to "collapse" in order to lay down and get from a spot where she's lying on her chest to her side. She whacks her head hard every time she tries to transition that way. If she sees me looking, she's upbeat but when she doesn't notice, she really does seem "worried" and she seems more hunkered down than comfortable most of the time. I know we've had the time with her to spoil her rotten. Since our older chocolate lab died about 2 yrs ago Piper has been spoiled absolutely rotten. She gets to do anything that isn't terribly bad for her health. I know we have not neglected that side. The question was when did the bad outweigh the good and I really have stuggled to try to figure that out. It is so clear now. Just thought I'd share this article since the other has disappeared, so many people seem to be facing this question lately and this article helped me so much.

    http://www.pet-loss.net/quality.html

    Defining "Quality of Life"
    by Moira Anderson Allen, M.Ed.


    Whenever one considers the painful choice of euthanasia, one is always advised to take the pet's "quality of life" into account. But what is "quality of life"? How can you determine whether a pet is still experiencing a good quality of life -- or whether its level of suffering is no longer acceptable?
    That decision is individual to every pet, and every owner. Following, however, are some factors to consider when attempting to assess a pet's quality of life:

    Mobility. An older pet often loses mobility. A dog may no longer be able to climb stairs or hop into a car; a cat may lose the ability to jump onto a bed or chair. At this stage, however, your pet may still be healthy and happy, and you can easily make accommodations for its reduced ability.

    If, however, your pet can barely move, that's another matter. Can your pet get to its feet without assistance? Can it sit or lie down without collapsing? Can it walk? Can it handle basic functions, such as squatting on a litterbox? Does it whimper or growl if you attempt to move it? I've seen dogs so crippled with hip dysplasia that they literally had to drag their immobilized hindquarters across the floor; this hardly represents the "quality of life" I want for my pets.

    Appetite/Eating Ability. Is your pet able to eat? Can it consume enough food (or digest that food) to remain properly nourished? Does it regurgitate immediately after eating? Is it unable to chew, or does it have difficulty swallowing? Does it enjoy eating, or do you have to coax every bite past its lips? A pet that is unable to eat or gain sufficient nourishment from its food is on a slow road to starvation.

    Breathing. A number of illnesses, including cancer, can affect the lungs. When a condition causes the lungs to fill with fluid or foreign matter (such as cancer cells), a pet quickly loses its ability to breathe easily or comfortably. You'll notice that your pet may seem to be panting, or that it is laboring to breathe; often, you'll see its stomach or flanks "pumping" as it can no longer breathe with just the chest muscles. It may also experience wheezing attacks. If such symptoms occur, ask for a chest x-ray to determine the condition of the lungs. If the problem is due to an allergy, infection, or asthma, medication may help; if it is due to fluids that are the result of cancer or a heart condition, however, little can be done.

    Discomfort. It can be difficult to determine whether a pet is in pain, as animals instinctively mask discomfort as much as possible. You can pick up clues, however, by watching its posture and expression. Does your pet's face appear furrowed or "worried", rather than relaxed and happy? Does it sit hunched or "hunkered" and tense, rather than relaxing and lying down? Lack of mobility can also be a sign of pain.

    Another indication of pain is "denning." An animal in pain will seek a safe place where it won't be disturbed by other animals. If your pet has forsaken its usual territories or sleeping places for the back of the closet or a spot under the bed, this may be a sign that it is pain or distress and feels vulnerable.

    A more obvious indication of pain is a pet's reaction to touch. If your pet responds to touch by flinching away, hissing, snarling, or even snapping, this is a clear indication of pain. Sometimes this can indicate a localized pain; if the pet doesn't want to be touched at all, however, it may indicate a broader discomfort.

    Incontinence. Many pet owners feel terribly guilty over the natural annoyance they feel when a pet becomes incontinent. They feel they should be more loving, more patient. Incontinence, however, can also be stressful for the pet. As a basic survival mechanism, animals learn not to "mess where they sleep" (for the smell would draw attention to the location of one's den). When an animal can no longer control when or where it urinates or defecates, you can be sure it is not happy with the situation.

    Mental Capacity. Older pets occasionally develop signs of diminished mental capacity. They may seem to "forget" things, such as where a toy is located or what a command means. Such a pet may become confused by its surroundings, and this confusion can develop into fear. (In some cases, this "confusion" may be the result of hearing or vision loss, to which both you AND your pet can often adapt.)

    Happiness. Determining whether your pet is "enjoying" life is certainly a subjective decision. However, if you have been a keen observer of your pet's behavior and attitude during its lifetime, you are likely to be able to determine when it no longer seems "happy." You'll know when it no longer seems to take any pleasure from its food, its toys, its surroundings -- and most of all, from contact with you and the rest of its family. Most pets are tremendously easy to please; when it no longer becomes possibly to raise a purr or a tail-wag, you can be fairly certain that your pet is receiving little joy from life.

    Response to Treatment. When a pet becomes ill, our natural response is to provide whatever treatment we can. This may mean tests, medications, even surgery. But drugs have side effects, repeated trips to the vet cause emotional distress, and more invasive treatments take a physical toll. Eventually, we may conclude that our efforts to treat a pet's illness are more stressful to the pet than the condition itself -- and that our efforts to save a pet's life are actually diminishing, rather than enhancing, the quality of that life.


    Making a Decision
    Assessing a pet's quality of life is an ongoing process, not a one-time decision. Initially, we're likely to attempt to compensate for the problems we see. Pain medication may relieve a pet's discomfort and improve its mobility. A change in diet may improve a pet's appetite or provide better nutrition. We may resolve that we're willing to clean up after a pet and carry it wherever it needs to go, for as long as necessary. But eventually such measures will cease to be effective. The process of assessing "quality of life" is really a question of determining (and deciding) when that point has been reached -- and what you intend to do next.

    It is often tempting, at this point, to postpone a decision still longer by deciding to "let nature take its course." Before choosing that course of action (or inaction), however, it's important to understand that, as a pet owner, you have been thwarting the "course of nature" from the beginning. By ensuring that your pet has food and shelter and is protected from predators, you have already guaranteed that nature will not take its course. By providing medical treatment, you have prolonged the life of your pet far beyond what it could have expected if left to "nature." In nature, an animal that becomes too ill to obtain food or protect itself will perish quickly, though not necessarily comfortably.

    Nor does nature necessarily offer an "easy" death even if you choose to let it "take its course" in the comfort of your home. An animal that cannot breathe easily, cannot eat or digest food properly, cannot control its bodily functions, and can scarcely move or enjoy human contact because of pain, is hardly dying "comfortably."

    This is really what the "quality of life" issue is all about. By usurping nature's role throughout the life of our pets, we must sometimes also accept its role in determining (and bringing about) the death of a pet. To accept this, we may also have to accept that, in some cases, the quality of life we're really trying to protect is our own: That we're allowing our pet to suffer out of a desire to avoid the anguish we know that we will experience when it dies. And that, ultimately, is the most unselfish act of love we can offer: To end a pet's suffering, we must choose to accept our own.


    Copyright © 2001 by Moira Allen. This column originally appeared on Allpets.com.
     
  2. frazzlehead

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    Letting a pet go is always a very hard decision, and my heart goes out to all who are faced with making it.

    When I had to put my beloved Akita down, I talked to my vet and we decided it was probably for the best. When I took her in, my vet looked at her and said "oh, look how old she looks ... she looks twice her age ... you are giving her a great gift, I know how hard it is."

    The dog seemed to know what was happening, and just relaxed (not normal at the vet!). My son and I stayed with her, and my last memories of her are of her looking peaceful and comforted.
     

  3. housewife

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    When we put down our last dog she had been on Kimo for a few years and we had got great results on the meds. She was a lab and always had a goffy smile. We desided that once the smile was gone we would put her down. It was really hard but everyone in the family went. We remembered all the fun and silly things she use to do. Our youngest and the dog were the same age they did some really funny things together. She was heart broken when he went to school. It is still hard but I know that we did the right thing.
     
  4. Ardie/WI

    Ardie/WI Well-Known Member Supporter

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    Thank you for posting that article. I've printed it out. We are daily watching our Goldie for signs of deterioration.

    So far, so good! The other day, he felt well enough to refuse to come into the house and he went off to explore behind the barn, so it was a good day for him. :clap:
     
  5. Beltane

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    Thank you for posting. I have also printed it out.
     
  6. GoldenMom

    GoldenMom Well-Known Member

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    Bumping so we don't lose this when we get pruned.