....but I was just searching myspace and typed in my high school aged BIL's name. I found lots of vulgar comments from him on other people's pages and it really disgusted me. I won't quote anything but we'll just say he was very derrogatory to women and every other word had four letters. He always presents himself to family as a quiet, sweet, young man. I understand that he is a teenager and teens tend to go a bit overboard when they think no one is looking but I don't know......I just feel like I don't know him. Anyway, I have this feeling now like I don't want him watching my children anymore. I just think he'd be a bad influence, even though he has always been great with them and seems to love them to death. I just know I don't want my boys speaking in the ways that he typed. Am I being paranoid? Do you think it is typical teen behavior?