I have 2 sons and 3, as we call them foster Kids. Our oldest got married a year ago, to a very nice girl with a 6 year old daughter. Well they were married in July and we didn't know about it untill September. Now we will go to Thankgiving, will be there for dinner, the son says, well they did show up 6 hours late. Went to her parents house for dinner. Then we go to X-mas, we will be there to open presents and have dinner. He calls me at 6:00 pm on X-mas eve and says can we come out and can I get our presents, because we won't be out for X-mas, we our going to her parents. Then I get a call to come to the granddaughters birthday party, 6 hours before the brithday party. Well, my other kids new about the party 2 weeks before this. They thought we knew. The day of the party, we all ready had plans, having people over. So my sons says, thats ok, we'll come over and have a party at your house for granddaughter. Run down get cake, and all the fixing, to have son and family not show up. They went to her parents house for a party. I call the next day to find out. I thought my son and I were close, I guess not. Don't know what to think. The other kids can't figure it out. Other than he has become distant to them too, in other ways. Any insight in to this would be appreciated. Thanks