Looking for a homesteading female. Are they real??

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  1. Pinetop Hunting

    Pinetop Hunting Well-Known Member

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    I hear that there is still a few somewhat attractive women who enjoy homesteading and the outdoors with good old fashioned (kinda) values that would enjoy a man with some property in the woods and an income and that I can find em here. Is this true? Lol
     
  2. swamp man

    swamp man Well-Known Member

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    There are some real prizes up in hurr, along with some maniacs who will ruin everything. Get comfy, check your gun at the door, and roll the dice, mang. Be sweet. We appreciate the ST ladies being treated like that.
    Welcome, BTW.
     

  3. Pinetop Hunting

    Pinetop Hunting Well-Known Member

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    So your answer would be yes? Thanks
     
  4. FarmboyBill

    FarmboyBill Well-Known Member Supporter

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    he he he he he he he he he lol.
    That being said, Ill give ya some helpful hints.
    PICTURES are a great help hopfully.
    Talk alot about your homesteading/gardening/farming experiences so they have a idea of your experience in that area, and what your goals are.
    DONT BE IN A HURRY. Here its like the Bible when it says (A year is like a day)
    Dont get pushy, dont get hopful, dont get expectant. Bide your time.
    AND, like Nick says, BE RESPECTFUL. ALOT of us are friends in here. Some have been so for years. Good luck

    PS, Telling your age is expected, somewhere likely about the time you post some pics.
     
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  5. swamp man

    swamp man Well-Known Member

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    No.
    Do everything Bill says not to do.
    Pushy, demanding, and expectant are all good, but it's all in the delivery....the delivery is key. It's like pie. You can bake it and feed it to her during a romantic picnic, or run up and bust it over her head. It's still pie, but the result ain't the same. DELIVERY.
    I have had positive results here, so listen up, aaight?
    Some of these women are excruciatingly smart, far smarter than we are. Do not ever, ever, ever try to win an argument. Even if you win, you still lost.
    Get drunk, get in a barfight, go to jail, and then get home real fast so's you can feed the dog and water the dang tomaters. They dig that, even if they say they don't, and I can boast a staunch record of success here.
    Be awesome, but accentuate whatever giant personal flaw it is you're totin'. Every woman loves a sick puppy to raise.
     
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  6. starjj

    starjj Well-Known Member Supporter

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    FBB be respectful? Yeah and don't speak about women body parts like a 10 year old. Don't post child like stories of seeing women's "girls" and don't drool on the computer keyboard when a post has the word skirt in it. Take it from us it may be amusing to you but women don't find it funny OR cute.

    That said welcome to the forum and if you really are nice and respectful you will fit in well. One more hint. You need to continue to post and tell more about yourself. This place tends to be like the bar Cheers where everyone knows your screen name and we all get along and don't get along at times.
     
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  7. viggie

    viggie Single Urban Homesteader

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    Welcome to ST. I suggest following the monthly homesteading singles threads. There's lots of pics and homesteading news and it's a good view into peoples lives.
     
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  8. Shrek

    Shrek Singletree Moderator Staff Member

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    Sometimes its true. Our board here is not exactly a dating site just more of a discussion site as folks discuss theirs and others life questioning topics.

    Usually about once to maybe three times a year m a couple posters here tend to decide to communicate off the public board or maybe a safe public meeting.

    Later some of them will share with the rest how well their meetings went. Sometimes folks come back and tell us they coupled up for a try at married happiness.

    None ever come here and find a prepackaged off the shelf internet style mail order spouse just sometimes months or years of cyber conversation lead to real life chances_____not bad for a casual atmosphere at no cost besides a little time spent posting in a few conversations and sharing qualities both good and bad with the group that may hold a chance for a real life venture and possible life path change.

    As others have said, welcome to The Singletree. Hang out in its shade as you discuss your life plans and issues or those of others. regardless of the outcome you will take something away to help you in figuring what to do in your life path as the next step or help others in their path. It's all good if you just let things move at their own pace not forcing anything____just like real life because it is a cyber introduction to some of the real life options you have to choose from in your life path journey.

    Enjoy your time with us and keep the first rule of HT host site in mind of "be nice" as described in the site FAQ page as you discuss with others , many facing the same things you are only from their perspective.

    If you have any questions just ask on board or contact Terri or I. If you go over site content or conduct limits Terri , I or some of the other members will let you know.

    That's about all there is about this message board for singles with a homesteading taste but not a dating site that some do find dates and marriages from. Not bad for a laid back and casual place with no money down or monthly subscription fee :)
     
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  9. willow_girl

    willow_girl Very Dairy

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    I met my partner here on HT, so yes it's possible! Good luck to you. :)
     
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  10. Boy, they gonna eat you alive and spit out everything but the liver and heart. Be especially careful of any user who signs off as "liver eating mama".
     
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  11. Terri

    Terri Singletree & Weight Loss & Permaculture Moderator Staff Member

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    It will be easier if you meet people who live in your own state. The commute can be a killer!

    Then again, I THINK there are people here from every state in the union. Maybe.

    Happy hunting!

    And, in the mean time, this is a very good place to just TALK!
     
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  12. Tommyice

    Tommyice Indomitable

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    But, but liver is so good with fava beans and Chianti. LOL
     
  13. Laura

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    It appears nobody is busting out the 3 gallons of vinegar this time. Nice for a change.

    I agree with SwampMan except for his last statement. Some of us are experienced enough at life and homesteading to know it is cheaper, easier and less time consuming to kill sick puppies rather than raise them. They don't get a chance to eat chicken or pee on the furniture.
     
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    Some of us are experienced enough at life and homesteading to know it is cheaper, easier and less time consuming to kill sick puppies rather than raise them. They don't get a chance to eat chicken or pee on the furniture. Oh Laura this cracked me up... Just what I needed this morning.
     
  15. skeeter

    skeeter Warning: I may bite!

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    Well I'm a reformed sick puppy rescuer....but learned which ones are worth saving and which ones aren't
     
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  16. Laura

    Laura Well-Known Member

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    I've had healthy fit Farm Dogs wander into my place Ready to Work who didn't need anything more than a few ticks pulled, a good worming and sometimes a thorn pulled from a paw. Checking their backgrounds, these Aussies, American Farm Collies, and Border Collies came from places where their particular talents were not understood nor appreciated. They were part of my family the rest of their lives and served us well. I trust this is true of men as well.

    As far as healing the sick? Only those who choose healing.
     
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  17. shanzone2001

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    Welcome. Yes, there are a few good looking homestead lovin women out there....just a few!!! Once you find one dont let her go....we are a rare breed!!! (kinda jokin but it really is the truth!) Just be a gentleman and let the ladies know more about you. Post some pics of yourself and your homestead. Be nice. Have fun and maybe make a few friends along the way. Did l say gentleman yet??
     
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    shanzone2001 Well-Known Member

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    PS Dont come across as a sick puppy if you are looking for a confident, capable woman. We dont have the time or the desire to raise you. We prefer them already men.
     
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  19. Laura

    Laura Well-Known Member

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    We true farm and homestead women sit around in our knitting circles and quilting bees discussing the best methods of killing sick puppies and kittens and the occasional sneaky rat.

    We also swap unicorn recipes.
     
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  20. wyld thang

    wyld thang God Smacked Jesus Freak Supporter

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    for the record I'm an embrace the dingo kinda grrl! awwwoooooooo! :D