Living in a 5th wheel camper with 5 children ..

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  1. horsepoor21

    horsepoor21 Wyn~D Farm Supporter

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    We recently sold our house in South Dakota and have been living in a 5th wheel camper we bought . It's a really nice one , 42 feet long , a "toy hauler" but we use that part as a bedroom that we put bunk beds in along with all the kids' toys and dressers . There's also a loft which the two oldest boys sleep in, it has a queen size bed . Then we have our own room , and the baby sleeps with us .

    We had originally planned to just live in this for the summer until our house sold , then find another place to buy but we are actually paying off bills ! We are saving so much money living in this that my husband is very tempted to keep us in it until spring time when we would be completely debt free .

    He has to live in it anyway as his job is here and this is not an area we want to live in permamently. We're having some people come out to put skirting on it and get everything ready for winter . Many guys my husband works with live in campers and after having these folks out they claim they've never froze up .

    Okay , on to my point ! I'm concerned about someone calling Social Services on us because we live in a camper . And because there are five children in here , even though this is a huge camper and very fancy to me .

    Do you think we could get in trouble for raising children in a camper over a cold nasty North Dakota winter ? Have you heard of other's doing this ?

    Thankyou in advance for your input !
     
  2. 4sam

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    I don't know about the social service laws but I think it is a great idea. What a better way to get debt free and spend time with each other. I am jealous!
     

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    There's a family living in a 24' trailer on our land right now. Just the two parents and a little boy. But they keep saying it's the nicest place they've ever lived!

    I don't think you will have a problem unless you have really nosy annoying neighbors/inlaws to report you.

    One thing I will say. Those campers (at least the one we have) are meant to last, say 15 or 20 years with light usage. If you live in one full time for a year, expect a LOT of stuff to be worn out - trim knocked off, faucet knobs broken, etc. Even if you are extra careful, it's just not designed for long-term full time use. But that being said, if you can come out the other side being debt free, I say go for it!
     
  4. watcher

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    We are living in a 66 foot mobile home and even w/o 5 kids we don't have enough room. I'd go nuts if we had to live in a camper.
     
  5. horsepoor21

    horsepoor21 Wyn~D Farm Supporter

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    Oh thankyou so much ! This is exactly what I needed to hear !

    My side of the family thinks it's a horrible idea and really had me second guessing myself .

    We don't have any neighbors really . We're just out on 6 acres that we rent from my husband's co-worker . He lives here as well in a mobile home .

    It has been a fantastic summer , it's like camping every day ! Obviously this winter we'll be inside most of the time but I'm already trying to come up with things to do to occupy our time .

    We have a propane furnace built into the camper but we're planning on buying an "Eden Pure" heater . I've heard good things about them . Then there won't be a fire hazard as they're cool to the touch .

    We also have a generator built in in case we lose power so no worries of freezing to death .

    Again , thankyou for helping me feel better !
     
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    LOL Well , even in our house we just sold , the children were always underfoot anyhow , so things really haven't changed !

    And , the best part ??? Cleaning takes us , literally , like 20 minutes . Then the place is spotless and I have TONS of time now to spend with my family , and do our homeschool , and tend to our animals !

    I just miss being able to do laundry in my own home ( our landlord lets us use his washer and dryer , I also have a clothesline) and I miss having a normal sized oven . But we got my husband a big grill for fathers day so we can at least eat our chickens without having to cut them up first . hehe
     
  7. Ann-NWIowa

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    Be sure to have plenty of carbon monoxide detectors and fire alarms. The carbon monoxide can be a big problem in campers when running furnaces.

    As long as the kids are clean, fed, doctored as needed, schooled, etc. I can't see why DHS would care that you're living in a camper. As for me, I'd be ready for the rubber room sooner rather than later.
     
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    Thankyou , that is a good point . The camper has several CM detectors built in , and it also has several smoke detectors but I have to take them down every time I cook or they go off .... haha Doesn't speak well for my cooking , does it ?;);)
     
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    Don't send the kids down the road to borrow cigarettes and remind them to stay away from your neighbor lady's electric fence, and I'm sure that you'll be fine.
     
  10. clovis

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    I second that idea about the C-M detectors. Make sure your family is protected!!!!

    As for CPS, I doubt they would say much. But of course, every locality is different. I really doubt they would have a leg to stand on about your living arrangement. When we went thru Indiana's adoption/foster program, the director told us that children must be safe, and have access to water. That doesn't mean hot water, or full plumbing, but a source of clean drinking water. It can be a spigot outside, according to her.

    FWIW, in lots of areas, CPS is reluctant to remove kids. The system is often over-burdened and lots of states don't want to spend any more money than they have to.

    In short, as long as they are happy, safe and have water, CPS isn't going to say a word, IMHO.

    Clove
     
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    Most smoke detectors work off a quick change in tempatures, and not off smoke itself....but you probably already knew that. In a camper, I bet it would be easy to set off the detector every time you open the oven door or warm up a large pot of water.
     
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    ..............You might want to consider adding some extra insulation too the walls of the storage area considering the below zero temps you will be experiencing by nov ! Maybe some of that 1 inch thick thermoply insulation board that comes in 4x8 sheets . The children sleeping in the storage area will need lots of very warm bedding and electric blankets . You didn't say if the toy hauler has thermoply windows . I think you'll also be surprised at how Cold the inside of your trailer will get without a significant anount heating capacity . , fordy:cowboy:
     
  13. Jan in CO

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    Horsepoor, if you can swing the money now, contact the edenpure people and see if you can buy one of the returned, recondiioned models. We bought one at regular price, then kept getting letters from them saying in the off season they sell them for 199. If we had needed another one, that would be the way to go.

    I think what you are doing is just fine. Lots of people live in smaller dwellings that than and aren't breaking any laws. I wouldn't worry. Do what is right and take care of your family. Good for you getting out of debt!

    Jan in Co
     
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    My only concern is North Dakota winters. How will you keep it warm in the winter?
     
  15. RiverPines

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    I dont know your state but in Wi that would be a big risk!
    Here we are regulated to death and living in a camper with kids is a nono.

    I know here, in Wi, I wouldnt risk it. Heck kids talk and say the wrong thing to the wrong person or have family that disagrees with your idea and CPS is at the door looking for a reason to make your life hell!!
     
  16. belladulcinea

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    Sounds like you are doing an excellent job with your debt and the family!
     
  17. PNP Katahdins

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    Amy, I'll bet the school system and CPS in your area have seen much worse conditions. You can't be the only family! Might be a good idea to have a backup plan though. Sounds like you are doing fine.

    Peg
     
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    In some states depending on age girls and boys can't sleep in the same room. That would be the first thing I would look into. You could always grab some coins and call cps from a pay phone and ask about it.
     
  19. georgec

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    I find this very hard to believe. You don't have trailer parks in WI?
     
  20. RiverPines

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    A mobile home is different from a camper.
    Campers are not meant for permanent living and our state is the master of regulating everything to death!
    Heck mobile homes are not easy to place on private land. To many townships just wont allow them!!
    Some only allow double wides. They want them to look like regular houses.
    Some townships have banned then except for pre-existing units on private land and in trailer parks.
    Wi is one state were you can by 100 acres of land but you may not get permission to put a mobile home on it if you want.

    Much of Wi is anti-mobile homes and no living in campers with children.