You said, "I made it clear in my message to the realtor that considering that we've been in this hamster wheel for three months already the land must be completely legally ready for instant purchase before I make a serious offer or enter into a contract."
In my estimation, you are being unreasonable. If this is truly the opportunity you seek, you lessen your chances by taking such a hard stance. Make the offer and put in contingencies to protect yourself. You will need to put down earnest money, but thats what it means. It isn't a contract until everyone agrees. You specify the things you want done and the time frame. If they don't go along, you walk away. Quit wasting time. You have zero clout until you make an offer.
Good Luck!
Gary
In my estimation, you are being unreasonable. If this is truly the opportunity you seek, you lessen your chances by taking such a hard stance. Make the offer and put in contingencies to protect yourself. You will need to put down earnest money, but thats what it means. It isn't a contract until everyone agrees. You specify the things you want done and the time frame. If they don't go along, you walk away. Quit wasting time. You have zero clout until you make an offer.
Good Luck!
Gary
