Some of you know that I made my husband leave a few months ago because he wouldn't take "no" for an answer and I didn't want to hear the yelling and fighting for hours so I would give in. I let him come back home in June. Things were great. Now they are falling apart again. He doesn't want me to say "no" and then is frustrated at me because I am not into it as he is. He has gotten to the point now that if I ask him to move his hands off of me as i am trying to go to sleep he gets angry at me and asks "what does it matter if my hands are there?" I just say "yeah it doesn't matter." I will admit that I have had some depression issues that I didn't want to admit and wasn't the best of housekeeper to his or my usual standards. This he throws in my face when I say no. So, I feel guilty and go ahead with things. I am working out and have changed some things are my depression issues are subsiding. I have more energy now and am changing things. Now, he questions me about normal things like buying baby wipes. For example, he was running in the store to get some pictures and I asked him to pick up a box of baby wipes. He asked why, do we need them? Well, duh!! We have 3 kids. I don't know how to talk to him about this. He says I need to take care of his needs. Am I too the point that I need to ask him if I say no is he going to leave. I don't want it to come to that. Please give me any advice. Thank you.