Final question is incomplete; would I do what? Retire? Already did and at a much younger age.
But still have many other 'irons' in the fire. But basically do what I want and when I want to.
How much is 'needed' is a whole 'nother ball of wax. It really depends......
It depends on your lifestyle and what you expect the future to hold.....
which of course, NO ONE can know really. Figured that I had enough
invested when I made the decision back in '97 to cut the strings and
took off on our own. Of course, I hadn't planned on the ex, deciding to
make a grab 14 years later and run off with over half my earnings and
retirement pension as well. But life continues and we adjust and move on.....
Do I have enough now? Probably not......dreams died, or changed.
My folks have spent the last 10 years, hopping in and out of assisted
care/retirement centers.....mainly because they felt they couldn't afford them.
Which was a crock......but that's what they told the world.....the reality was
that mom was very controlling and didn't want to be anyplace but her house,
and would brow-beat dad until he gave in and took her back home;
although he couldn't adequately care for her and they didn't keep adequate help
around to care for her. Consequently her developed a UTI that became septic
and she finally was taken to the hospital by ambulance. She nearly died, but always
maintained that "other people get septicemia.....but I NEVER had it!!!" This illness,
then led her to developing early alzheimers and with it, the inability to make wise decisions;
like getting heavily into sweepstakes and rigged contests thru the mail......literally spending
over a $1000/month on the "games" and never seeing dime one in return. Dad finally came over
to me to seek help: "We've got a problem...." (I should mention here, that he had been diagnosed
several years previously, with early dementia, which was somewhat controlled with medication.)
He explained that things were getting out of hand and that something needed to be done.
Since mom had MS and has not physically been able to walk or get out of the house without
assistance from my father or me, it seemed an easy task to 'help' with. Told him that when he
went to the mailbox, to simply pull the ones that appeared to have those "something for nothing"
look to them, toss in the outside burn cage and bring the rest inside to mom. Couldn't do it.
Turns out, he was nearly as 'hooked' as she was. This had been going on for 6+ months.
Finally had to take legal steps to protect their investments by taking her to court and lock-down her checking account.
She NEVER forgave me for that decision..... and figured out a way around it by sending dad to the bank,
pulling several hundred dollars out at a time, and then sending CASH thru the mail to continue feeding her addiction.
Eventually, with the help of my other siblings, we were able to get them into a nearby assisted-living care center,
where she lived out the rest of her miserable existence for the next 23 months. In the end, she was NOT even recognizable
as the woman who had once raised us. A lot of the misery that ensued to both them and their family/friends,
could have been avoided, if THEY had simply planned things differently and trusted their kids to do what was right for them....
So we may never know what is really needed......until it's too late.