K all....... this is gonna sound like a really evil wife thing but how in THE WORLD do I get my husband to understand that I HATE chewing... I mean loath and dispise. I know that there are those out there that do it.... fine more power to ya... it's just a thing i hate. My real dad chewed and that's the main thing I remember and he also did drugs, let my step dad adopt me cause his stripper wife turns out was Bi and so I guess that just turned me off all chewing or smoking of any kind. I don't mind a beer every once in a while but hate chewing or smoking. His dad died of lung and lymph cancer and so did his grandpa and my grandpa and UGH! How dumb does he need to be?!! I have told him I hate it, poured his spit and full can of chew all over a bunch of tools he used and just chewed him on it and get fully enraged. He says he doesn't do it very often and I don't care. I don't care I don't want it on the place, in a truck on the place or really people chewing or spitting on my place in front of my kids. It's MY place. He says he could do worse stuff like go to bars, beat me, yell, be a bum and lots of stuff and I say I could too. I coud think of lots of stuff. Thing is he wouldn't care if I smoked or chewed or drank. So really the only leverage I have is I could easily find someone to ya know.... "use" but just ain't like that. That is the only thing I could do that would upset him. But ain't quite ready to stoop to that level.... ANY IDEAS!?!?!?!?! I'm so annoyed. I'm about to bring out the "pyschyatrist" guns..... we saw one for a couple months with great success last year. And he knows I have nothing on him...... I do feel better that tonight I went to get something out of his truck and saw a cup with about an inch of "slime" in it and "accidentally" knocked it over in his seat. I hope that in the morning when he slides in to his truck and it's dry but still smelly he enjoys people wondering if he bathes as he walks around the hospital where he works. HAHA! Didn't make me totally unmad...... but it helped some! HAHA!!!