Okay...Ive been having a little bit of an issue here. I am a stay at home mother and a house wife. Nothing wrong with it. I enjoy it. I love being a mother. DH and I have only one child, DD8. Who is disabled. DH and I have been trying for number 2. However, number 2 is not happening and perhaps will never happen. I don't know. Only God knows. So now Ive been thinking about something that has been in my heart for a very long time. Since I was twenty I wanted to become a police officer. I know Im a girl and probably not tough enough for it. As some have said to me. I know what I'll face, and what Ill have to go through. My father is a former special police officer and I had a good friend who was a police officer as well. My point being is this, is it so wrong for me to go out and work full time and have DH stay home and care for our daughter? Is there something morally wrong with a woman "bringing home the bacon"? Not that I don't like being a mother. I love being a mother. But if I had the opportunity to get a good job making twice what my DH is currently making should I be saying, "sorry can't take it. My place is in the house changing diapers and baking cookies."