We just got a Jersey who's giving approx. 2.5 gallons/day. It takes forever to milk her by hand. We do not have her in a head gate or kicker which I know we need to do, but I am wondering if people still milk by hand, and how long should we expect it to take at each milking? How much of a difference should it make once we get her more restrained during milking? Does anyone use a milker? Can you tell me pros/cons/recommendations?