Weather was sunny and nice till I went down near the lake, it was so cool, i got a chill, Didn't realize it was going to be so cool otherwise I would have taken a coat. Stood around out side for about an hour, I listened to my nephew give a eulogy I had to give the closing prayer and wait around till my wife's brother's ashes were buried in the family plot. The service went well, went to her sister's house and my wife and her family sat around looking at old pictures of their family and had a meal. My wife was least effected by his death, partly because she saw him in the hospital often and knew he was going to die, partly because his death was his own fault, partly because we believe we will eventually see him again in the life that comes after, and partly because my cold nature concerning death may have worn off on her. May be cold isn't the right word although Mary Richards (Mary Tyler Moore) would say I was callous. I kept making jokes like Murry did in the episode Chuckles bites the dust. " After all we joke about what scares us, yet we know death will have the last laugh on us. "
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At least my suggestion of putting his ashes in an empty vodka bottle wasn't too far off, I thought they could pour a little booze in for his last drink before they buried him. The brother was given a flask and poured booze into the grave hole for "one last one." And I thought I was making a joke, guess I was wrong. All in all it was a nice funeral. "I wonder why we dress in black and cry our eyes out when they are dead and not do it while they are still alive."