frequency: adults only

Discussion in 'Countryside Families' started by WindowOrMirror, Nov 20, 2006.

How many times a week do you engage in physical intimacy with your spouse?

  1. Once or less

  2. 1 or 2 times

  3. 2 or 3 times

  4. 3 or 4 times

  5. 4 or 5 times

  6. more than 5 times

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  1. WindowOrMirror

    WindowOrMirror ..where do YOU look? Supporter

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    Another thread got me thinking. If you break down a typical three-month period of time in your marriage, how many times do you find yourselves engaging in physical intimacy activity (broken down into a "per week" number)?
     
  2. mpillow

    mpillow Well-Known Member Supporter

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    I dont keep track....

    I think this may be age realted too....I'm not 23 and I do have pre-teens in the other room of a smallish house :nono:

    I can remember 23 though and sometimes thats all I need :rolleyes:
     

  3. Ardie/WI

    Ardie/WI Well-Known Member Supporter

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    Now, honestly, who would want to blab that over the Internet!

    I think Roger would be insulted if I told. That's private.
     
  4. WindowOrMirror

    WindowOrMirror ..where do YOU look? Supporter

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    Don't tell, vote. I kept that private! ;)
     
  5. lgslgs

    lgslgs Well-Known Member

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    I'd love to take time to answer the poll, but hubby and I have....er....an appontment.

    :)

    Lynda
     
  6. ceresone

    ceresone Well-Known Member Supporter

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    humm--think you should post a upper-age limit?
     
  7. Peacock

    Peacock writing some wrongs Supporter

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    I don't mind voting and keeping it private.

    But I will say this much -- it's not the last choice on the bottom. ;)
     
  8. Melissa

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    I am going to allow this thread even though it is pretty personal. It might help people to realize that they are actually average in their habits. (I am not saying this well, am I?!?!) But anyways, it should be educational overall...
     
  9. WindowOrMirror

    WindowOrMirror ..where do YOU look? Supporter

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    Thanks Melissa. I tried to word it such that if someone not of legal age viewed it that they would not be tarnished by what they read!
     
  10. Michael W. Smith

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    Hmmmmm . . . . . . I think the number level is affected by several factors - age, how long you have been in the relationship, work schedule, children and ages, etc.

    The activity level doesn't give you those details so it's an unfair profile. Besides, it's nobody's business plus you could end up with the "high school mentality" of boys in the locker room - fantasy vs reality. :rolleyes:
     
  11. mrglock27

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    My wife wants to have another baby so I get to engage in the physical intamacy activity about once or twice a week right now, but usually I only get to "engage" about once every 2 to 3 weeks with her. (YIKES~little too much info there sir!-M)
     
  12. WindowOrMirror

    WindowOrMirror ..where do YOU look? Supporter

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    Man, I guess I'll start posting disclaimers with every poll from now on!

    "This poll is for edutainment purposes only. Any appearance of parallel to you life should be ignored and the results are not scientifically accurate".

    <eye roll>
     
  13. donsgal

    donsgal Nohoa Homestead

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    Your wife does huh? What do you want?

    donsgal
     
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    donsgal Nohoa Homestead

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    To me quality is more important than quantity. lol As long as both parties are happy with frequency, the number shouldn't matter.

    donsgal
     
  15. big rockpile

    big rockpile If I need a Shelter

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    Can we have Per Year Number?

    big rockpile
     
  16. sisterpine

    sisterpine Goshen Farm Supporter

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    I'm with you on this one Rock!
     
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    farmergirl Well-Known Member Supporter

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    Oh, Rock, you big sweetie, this is just making me sad :(
     
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    Sherrynboo Well-Known Member Supporter

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    I just read in my prevention magazine that frequency helps men avoid prostate cancer and the optimum frequency was 21 times a month!! I told hubby not to even think about that! For what it is worth, we are not where near that amount per month.

    Sherry in GA
     
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    :rotfl: We saw the same reports. We also hope that pre-children activity applies, since once children came into the picture, well those standards are very difficult to come close to, much less meet and/or exceed.

    We have 3 children ranging from teen-preschool, need I say more! :zzz: Reese
     
  20. Old John

    Old John Well-Known Member Supporter

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    Shoot, I think it's a Cute Poll, no matter what your age is........
    DSW & I are better'n average., not much though.
    That tickles me. But not surprising.

    Intimacy is a Lot more than frequency, of "s*x" though.
    We think...........
    Intimacy should be a Day to Day, loving tenderness & Kindness,
    you share, between you, much of the time you are together.

    It's not just physical. It's Kinda like a feeling in the air, a sparkling,
    electrical feeling, that touches you both.

    You hear it in Her Voice. You see it in Her Eyes.
    A touch, a Word, a Secret Smile.............

    It's Important. If you don't have it, you need to talk together,
    and, Learn, to work on it.
    Good Luck, in finding it.