the wife and I are trying to put a fence around our(what will be) garden. The problem we are having is the spacing on the gates. I'm hoping someone has some advice as we're about to pull our hair out. We are using utility post (metal) and using 4 strands of wire we are tensioning. The problem is when we tension the post are (naturally) pulled out of alignment. Should we set the post in concrete or is there a trick here I'm missing? I heard someone say that you need to lean the post the opposite way they are going to be tensioned thus when you tension them they will straighten up. HELP!!!