Over in the gardening forum they were talking about Fels-Naptha being toxic by using your clothes washing water on gardens.... OK..I started making my detergent by using Fels-Naptha, washing soda and borax. It saves money and I thought (?!?) was safer and better for my family. Is it better,worse or the same as going to the store and picking up a bottle of detergent there? And if it is worse...does anyone have a recipe that isn't toxic to my family and still get clothes clean? Thanks.