Please inform them of this site and the seperate site: http://groups.msn.com/homesteadvets The msn site has a place called TAD where those in service can write their words and give us a real bit of insite about what they are experiencing in conflict areas. There is also a chat portion where you and they can use free to communicate in real time. There are 20 boards covering various subjects available for everybodys use. Don't let them feel as if they are alone; that can cause major issues to exist while they are in stress.