I see you guys--now get out of here, I mean it. NOW! Okay--back to my question. I was so impressed by what everybody was saying on this forum a few weeks ago about the Diva Cup that I went and ordered one. Now I'm a little perplexed about how to use this thing--especially the "twist" and spring open part. First, I'm not able to rotate it--it's really stuck in there, and there's not a lot to grab on to. Second, it's not springing open--it's still basically squished together (maybe I should be thankful that I've got good muscles. . .?) Am I missing something?