How are things in your world ? I fill a depression is coming or maybe it's just me . I had to give each of my 3 kids a 100 dollar gif cards for Christmas from our local grocery . They spent all their money on presents for the kids , Had to give one 140 for her gas bill another one 140 to pay something with anoher 20 dollars to get med for sick husband . Granddauther calls and needs 100 to take the baby to doctor no insurance . My sons xwife husband calls he lost his job and wants to know if he can work on the frm this week as they are broke . God has blessed my wife and I an we have saved all our lifes for retirement but how long can we keep this up and how do we say no to family ? Just had to vent some sorry .