I received a phone call at 8:30 tonight from a woman from the Dept. of Human Services. She told me that there had been accusations made regarding my stepson and son. She wants me to bring my son to her office after school tomorrow. She said she had already met with my stepson. The accusations only refer to stepson, son, and me. No mention of my daughter or my husband. She said it wasn't high priority and she didn't think I should be overly concerned. She said this way to nicely. This is the third time I have had to go through this. Stepson's mom reports some crap when she wants a child support increase. They finally stopped listening to her but this tiime she has a new spin. She denies my husband visitation majority of the time and coaches, bribes, bullies stepson. She tells him she has no money to take him places and it's all my fault. My kids get everything and he has nothing at our house. The last visit he would not change out of clothes from her house because he said none of stuff in his room was his. It was all my son's. My son is 3 shoe sizes bigger, 2 pants sizes bigger, 3 inches taller etc. My stepson has everything here that other kids do but he is with mom more. Sorry to ramble anyway mom tels stepson if she doesn't have to bring him here anymore she can get more money from Daddy and coaches him to tell school something so they will call in. I have taken and passed drug tests, both of my kids have been stripped, med. and dental records reviewed, cars checked out, entire house, fridge,closets, dressers everything. They have been to kids school checked grades attendance you name it. They have never found a thing. How many times do i have to take this? How much do i have to cooperate. The office I have to go to is in another county over an hour away. Every time this happens I have to jump through hoops to disprove accusations. They have been as ridiculous as saying that I did not have a refrigerator with a huge side by side packed full sitting in my kitchen. They have always came to house and kids school before so this time is a bit different. My nerves are worse than shot right now. I don't know what to do to put a stop to this. I feel like a sitting duck just waiting for some overzealous caseworker to say well something must be wrong or she would have given up by now. My stepson will say and do whatever mom tells him to even when he knows she's lying to him. I am sick and tired of my family being attacked. BTW if I am such an unfit paent wouldn't my husband be to for allowing whatever to happen? CPS has never seen or spoken to my husband during any of this?