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I thought I would just comment outside of the other posts regarding hiring detectives to check up on prospective mates and concerns over personal histories.

I hired a detective at the tail-end of a relationship a couple of years ago because I had some very deep reservations. There seemed to be a great disparity between what the man I was involved with was telling me he and what he was actually doing on a day to day basis. This was a LDR where there were supposed plans for me to move in with him.

The things I found out about him, his past.... nothing criminal, but certainly very questionable and worriesome as far as his ability to maintain a successful relationship, hold a job, manage finances.

I will just say that if you have reservations about someone who you are considering making a commitment to and spending your life with, go ahead and check. Your safety and peace of mind are worth it.
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