Tara Rhodes, a legal secretary in Philadelphia, learned she was pregnant. She delivered a son, Jalen, five years ago. Though Rhodes's relationship never blossomed into marriage, her boyfriend stuck aroundâat first. But the couple split up when Jalen was 3. Rhodes, now 35, has no regrets about being a single mom. "A lot of people get married just to say they're married. But they're really unhappy," she says. Still, Rhodes hasn't given up on the idea of marital bliss. "Eventually," Rhodes says, "I would want to do it the right way." http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/15892546/site/newsweek/ I wonder how old the kids will be when eventually comes along. I always wonder if the children have any regrets. I also wonder how many more years before 5 out of 10 kids are born to unmarried moms.