So my oldest, a 15 YO DD is interested in a boy, 14. Both are well-churched, homeschooled, and innocent. They have been good friends for quite some time but over the past 3 months or so, have been allowed to be together in our company or out to an amusement park with groups of other friends and their parents or us (wife and I). Never alone. Never held hands. Never kissed. The boy is very kind and sweet to her. We have laid down the rules for dating...there won't be any as our opinion is that dating and going through boy after boy after boy is simply practicing for divorce. My opinion. Yesterday, she asked if she could go to the boy's house and play music together while his mother is at the house. THey are both very much musically inclined and IMO again, very gifted. My wife and I have a problem with her going to his house, out of our site, with only the mother there. We know the mother well, but we think she could leave the room at any time and that could lead to "alone time", and we are not comfortable with that. For those of you that subscribe to the courting agenda, are we correct in not letting her go there? Thoughts appreciated. Thanks in advance. RW In South La.