My mailman is about the laziest woman I've ever seen. She doesn't close the door on my mailbox, even in a rainstorm, so my mail gets soaked. Sometimes my mail gets blown out because she didn't shut the door. Other times I just don't get my mail and who knows what happened to it then. She races down our little dirt road at an abnormal rate of speed and you can hear her coming from down the road as she skids to a stop in front of each mailbox on the route. Although I couldn't prove it, I believe she even HIT my mailbox at one point, uprooting it and sending it flying into the ditch. The mailbox was standing one minute while I was out in the garden, I walked around back, heard her skid to a stop outside and a big thud, and when I walked around front she was gone and my mailbox was in the ditch. I need to resolve this situation, but I want to do so in a decisive victory that will not result in a long, drawn-out feud. I've already asked her several times to please slow down and make sure she closes my mailbox, but it resulted only in attitude. Any suggestions?