Parasite resistance is definitely something that I intend to select for in my long-term breeding plan. My buck last year was EXCELLENT in this regard, I don't know why I sold him

When the rest of my herd was skinny and anemic, he was the only one that looked spectacular. Of course this was a management issue that has since been corrected, but still, his ability to maintain good body condition and a healthy coat says a lot IMO.
I have seen bad parasite problems in horses, sheep, cattle, goats, etc. I think it has more to do with management than with the species. Rotating pastures to keep them healthy and parasite free will keep your animals healthy and parasite free. Grazing the same area for months at a time, or year round, is asking for trouble.
Also, if your animals eat mostly hay or tall plants (not grasses) they will be less likely to ingest parasites than an animal that derives most of its nutrition from grazing.
fomacha (probably spelled that wrong) is when you look at the color of the inner eyelid to determine anemia, which is usually due to worm infestation. I think it is less about breeding an animal that can tolerate a wormload, and more about breeding an animal that is not likely to become a host for a ton of parasites. Feeding garlic also helps to make the animals body an inhospitable environment for parasites. Of course you don't want to do this long term with your milking animals