Hi guys! I haven't posted here in a while, but I've been "lurking." I've noticed that a lot of people have been having some really hard times with their goats, and I wanted to reach out to you guys and try to encourage you!
I rarely talk about the first goat I had (it's embarrassing, to me, to admit to failure), but I feel like this may be a good time to tell her story. I bought by first goat - a Nubian - when I was 15. However, after owning her for around a year she got very sick and lost a ton of weight. I realize now it was mostly my fault - I basically didn't know what I was doing. I also had no other resources besides a vet clinic that mostly works on horses. I gave her shots from the vet and NutriDrench twice a day, but after about a week I lost her. I was devastated, and very turned off of goats.
I didn't try goats again until the end of 2008 - three years since my first goat. I have always loved goats, but I was too scared to get another one. However, I read several books, started subscribing to some farm magazines, and researched a lot. I finally decided to try goats again. I still don't know everything, but I know a lot more than I did. I haven't had any major issues, but I know that if I did I could come here or contact the breeders I've bought from for help! I'm extremely happy that I decided to get goats again. I know that I'll lose some eventually, even if it's just to old age (if only we could all be that lucky!), but I think the enjoyment they bring is worth the pain we eventually have to face.
So, my point is, don't give up! I think that goats are worth the struggle of trying to learn how to do things right. Learning is fun, too, most of the time. If you need a break, take one. If, like me, you don't want to continue with the same breed, start fresh with a new one. I decided on Nigerian Dwarves instead of Nubians this time around, and I'm glad I did. I think they're a much better fit for me than Nubians, and they don't constantly remind me of the things I did wrong with my first goat. Maybe you're meant to own a different breed!
Anyways, I hope this helped all of you who are suffering from frustration and/or loss right now. Sometimes we have to learn the hard way, but at least we're learning!