Well, River, opinions are like noses. Just about everybody has one.
My bucks have to be willing to be handled. I don't care whether or not they like me, but they jolly well better allow us to handle them. Otherwise, how are we to trim hooves, medicate, bolus, inspect, inject, etc etc etc?
Visitors are instructed that, if so inclined, they may pet the bucks from the "human" side of the fence. Only Nick and I are allowed in there with them, and we don't go in every day. We feed and water from our side of the fence, and only go in for cleaning and maintenance (of the pen and the bucks).
A buck who doesn't want to go near people at all is not my idea of a good buck.
But, like I said, opinions, noses, blah blah blah.