I have a milker (1 yr) and a doeling (4 mos and weighs just over 50# now; DOB 4/29/09). These are my first goats (hence the first time I've needed to breed them). They are Nubians. I was hoping to find possible bucks to breed to at the fair, but there were NO Nubians (about 95% LaMancha).
I'm pregnant, due end of October or early November. I will probably be drying the milker off in October. I'd like to try breeding them in November, so its not frigid with birthing time arrives. At that time the doeling will be 6-7 mos. and hopefully big enough to breed (70 to 80#s?).
The girls have a small pen made with cattle panels. They have an 8'x7' space in the shop for shelter (inside walls are also cattle panels. I can run electric fence, but I haven't yet (they don't seem to be escape artists thankfully). They are generally quiet goats, and I am the only one with goats on a rented lot, so I want to be discrete...

Oh, and my husband would help if he had to, but he'd rather not be involved. Otherwise its just me.
My options - pros/cons? tips?
- I *might* be able to borrow a buck, but this makes me nervous (what if something happens to it? or it escapes?). Any ideas if I go this route? Will my fence hold it? Will I be able to handle it when I'm super pregnant or have just had a baby?
- There is a Nubian buck about 6 miles away, but I don't know the herds CAE/CL/etc status, or if the buck is registered. The owners are pretty laid back (met them once). Can a beginner get away with a driveway breeding?
- Should I consider buying a buck then butchering it? It would probably be a grade buck and I don't know whats available atm. It would have to live with the does. If I do this what age do I need (ideally)?
Is there a list of things to look for in a buck? I'm not keeping any offspring (I just want milk), but I don't want my girls to catch anything!
I'll go to the breeder of my does next year and get a buck, but I can't afford that this year (long drive). Plus I'll need a year to talk DH into it
Thanks.