I should have gone back for the lead rope to secure her, but heres how it goes...
I got out to the shop, took my pail and wash bucket out to the shelter, hung them on nails up high so I could go back and get sweet feed... by the time I got back to the shelter she was circling and watching for me and walks very close to my side nudging me and looking for the sweet feed. i carry it at shoulder height so she cant get her nose into it... well, once I got out there and realized I'd forgotten the rope, the only way to go back for it was to take the feed WITH me, or she'd have it half gone by the time I got back...
But she would have followed me nearly in my pocket back to the shop to get it if I went back, so I decided I could just do without
Maybe I need a shelf out in the cows shelter on the inside above the door that I can put the lead rope and brush and things on so that I dont have to go back and forth for them
still working out a routine that works well for us... but trying to be consistent in the meantime.
and Rachel (or Matt?) Dh had to laugh at your comment about toddlers... normally when mine throw a fit I walk away and leave them to it. It gets them nothing, but I dont dignify it with a response either. that wont work well with the cow I guess