Whose job is it to clear the fenceline?

Laura, from your post I get the impression that you definitely don't feel obligated to be nice to your neighbors. You might want to change your tune. Seriously, you're being presented with a great opportunity to help someone else out, and make friends in the process. It doesn't pay to try and be high and almighty.

Really a good neighbor is what you want!

My uncle has some ignorant neighbors, and it is REALLY crazy what they do to P**s each other off! Remids me of a family fued!