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Old 06/17/05, 08:41 AM
 
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Also years ago I attended an urban safety awareness seminar and the speaker said "More women are killed by good manners and the fear of appearing unladylike than by anything else". He said most women are too embarassed to scream, make a fuss, fight, run...he suggested that if a rapist gets your pants off to urinate or defecate on him, or (if you can control your nausea reactions) throw up on him. And he said is better to liook like a fool because you screamed at the wrong person than to be a lady- a dead lady- because you didn't scream when you needed to.
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Old 06/17/05, 09:15 AM
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I've travelled all over the world alone as well and let me tell you sometimes bad things do happen. Maybe you are lucky I don't know, but just because nothing has happened to you doesn't mean you dont' have to be cautious and protect yourself.

Most of the people I ran into were good. But you don't protect yourself from those people.
The greater odds are that you will be attack and killed by someone you actually know. Some statistics to consider. When you are thinking about how dangerous that stranger is.

64% of women who reported being raped, physically assaulted, and/or stalked since age 18 were victimized by a current or former husband, cohabiting partner, boyfriend, or date. Most perpetrators know their victims. According to the 2000 National Crime Victimization Survey, 62% of rape and sexual assault victims knew the perpetrator. More than 40% of rapes and sexual assaults came at the hands of a person the female victim called a friend or acquaintance. Female victims identified intimate partners as the perpetrator in 18% of rapes and sexual assaults

Domestic violence is the largest single cause of injury to women in the U.S.- more than injuries from auto accidents, muggings and rapes combined. (Surgeon General of the U.S.)

On average, more than three women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends in this country every day. In 1999, 1,642 murders were attributed to intimates; 74 percent of the murder victims. (Bureau of Justice Statistics Special Report, Intimate Partner Violence and Age of Victim, 1993-99, October 2001)

Nearly one-third of all women murdered in the U.S. in 1998, were killed by a current or former intimate partner. Guns were used in almost two-thirds of these domestic homicides. (U.S. Dept. of Justice Bureau of Justice Statistics; Homicide Trends in the U.S., Intimate Partner Homicide, 2001).


Bad things do happen. But usually it is not the stranger on the street or the escaped psycho in the woods that does it.

Be aware of ALL of your surroundings.
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Old 06/17/05, 09:30 AM
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I typically also feel safer in the country than any city.... but regardless, when the hairs on the back of my neck stand up... I LISTEN! Go with your gut instinct is my advice. Better safe than very very sorry.

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Old 06/17/05, 06:40 PM
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Always listen to those little nudges we all get from time to time. I've heard that this is how your gaurdian angel talks to you and you'd best listen! We all have a sense of things around us. Your subconscious must have picked up on something being not right in some way. When this happens I always listen and go along with it, no matter how I feel about it otherwise. One night DH decided to take DS and I to one of our favorite places in the world---the stock car races. We even had a favorite place to sit too. We drove for an hour to get there. The whole time I had this feeling of "doom" getting stronger and stronger the closer we got. Finally we were in the parking lot and
I started crying. Ended up with them mad at me and us going back home. The next morning we read in the paper how a stock car came airborn up off the track and plowed thru the bleachers seriously injuring lots of people. Guess where in the bleachers the worst happened? Right where we always sat! We haven't been back since. You can feel safe or threatened anywhere, listen to yourself. It pays off to be cautious.

I thought I was the only one who got those!
I get those all the time, about all of my family, and I have never been messed with, even when I lived in NYC. Of course, it could be that I am 6 foot 2 and know how to hit and walk like a man when I have to.
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