
07/21/14, 03:13 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Wyoming
Posts: 1,185
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Originally Posted by Danaus29
I never told anybody to F off nor did I do anything to antagonize the nutjobs except to go into my own backyard.
So there is a way to tell a person is a total whackjob so you can avoid them before you ever meet them? And if one of those nutcases moves in close by you simply pack whatever you can into the car and move away?
No I don't want one of those bad neighbors to whack me in the head with a car axle. But apparently you know the secret to totally avoiding a nut with an attitude so there are no bad neighbor issues. I'm sure I'm not the only one who wants to know how to avoid them before you are even aware they are psycho killer lunatics.
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Alright. I think we need a time out. I'm not sure why you are responding thusly. Is there a reason you think I'm attacking you? I can assure you, I'm not.
What I am doing is sharing my experience with this sort of thing. It takes 2 people to make situations like this explode. Sure, the crazy neighbor could be really crazy and do things that are just...well crazy. Does it push you, sure. Is it illegal, probably. Does responding to them solve anything? Well no, they're crazy. All responding does is give them a more direct focus and more motivation. So, responding could get you killed. Or you could let the crazy person push all your buttons until you react in an illegal way and get yourself thrown in jail. Those are the two scenarios I see time and again. So what is my opinion on the best solution? Well if you've got a crazy neighbor, someone who is doing and saying things just to get to you, you don't do anything. You don't respond to them. You document, and you call the police when necessary. You don't talk to them. You don't do things back. You don't do any of that. That's called a mature response imo.
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