
09/20/13, 09:54 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: Essex/Tecumseh ON Canada
Posts: 179
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My wife and I make do as much as possible but she sways to the penny-wise pound foolish side. In other words, she will stock up on 25 cans of something that no one will eat because it was 25 cents off or drive 20 miles to save $1. I love her dearly for that because my last relationship, she was an absolute spending nightmare.
The problem arises with the kids. They certainly have not learned the making do trait and consider us to be unnecessary "penny pinchers". However, they are almost on their own and realizing exactly what it takes to run and finance a household and have not heard "you guys are cheap" in awhile.
The oldest is now 23, bought a brand new car, new way over her head house, new computer, new phone, new cloths and works for nearly minimum wage. I wish I could get through to her but to each their own. In time I think we all learn the getting by thing. For some it will be a hard lesson. For some it is natural as our parents or grandparents did.
I still remember my uncle teasing my 90 y/o grandfather about straightening nails and keeping them and by gosh, I find myself doing that now. Screws are ---- expensive!
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