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Jodi 05/11/04 06:02 PM

For women only!!! Guys don't read.
 
Hi Ladies:

I was wondering how many of you use cloth sanitary protection? I first read about them here and have ordered some off the internet. (I'd make them myself, but do not sew) I'm not sure what I want to ask about them, I guess I just want to know if they are a pain to wash and deal with. I am tired of spending all the $$$ on store bought ones.

I have also seen info on the "Keeper". If anyone here uses it...is it comfortable? Does it really work?

Sorry if any guys have read this.....you might say..TMI!!!!! (but, I warned you)

Jodi

Strange Bear 05/11/04 06:52 PM

I have used both. I find that the Keeper is comfortable, though it took awhile to learning how to insert an remove it. I think for most people it is a matter of the ick factor. I don't mind either at all but many people can't stand ick factor at all.

chickflick 05/11/04 06:57 PM

Keeper user here.. but only SOMETIMES. I ordered pre Y2K.. two sizes.. I like the smaller(est) one better.. but can't really VISUALLY see the difference. :confused:

The only discomfort is the little pull thingy (on the reg. size) .. I think I'll trim it.. Problem solved.

Otherwise.. I LOVE IT!!! (GOD I hope no guys reading!!) :o Oh, well. their misfortune.. here goes!!!

Two is better than one. Can exchange on the 'change'. Works MUCH better than tampons.. never a 'leak'. (But use liner just in case if move weird maybe a drop!)

Um... this is much preferable to ANY thing I would have to wash... ewww.. just pull the plug.. (with tp) let drain in toilet.. set on more tp. Insert new one.. Rinse in hot water, let dry.. do it all again.

The 'products' in the cup.. are fresh and red... not old, brown and dead, like tampons and pads. I feel much cleaner.

Okay... I also feel very brave!!! LOL!! Hope this helps.

snoozy 05/11/04 07:04 PM

I haven't used the cloth ones and have no opinion on them, but I do think the Keeper is unhealthy. Our systems are designed to flush, to flow, to drain every month. I don't think it is a good idea to block the flow for hours at a time. I would think you might have bacterial complications.

Montana Mom 05/11/04 07:04 PM

I use scrapped cloth diapers cut into appropriate sized strips. I've heard about "The Keeper" but I am leery of putting toxic plastics into my body (I assume that the keeper is plastic or something similarly toxic)

I wash the "rags" with the regular wash, usually with the non-whites just to be safe. I've noticed my flow is much shorter/milder since I stopped eating meat and other junk so its almost a non-issue.

HTH

RAC 05/11/04 07:20 PM

The Keeper used to be made of natural rubber, don't know if it still is. If you are allergic to latex that would be a problem. The Diva cup looks identical except that it is made of some clear material (silicone?).

If you have a very heavy flow, they will leak, like anything else, if you don't change (tampons, napkins, etc.) or empty (the Keeper) on a more frequent basis. I like the Keeper--you can also just empty and reinsert. Great for backpacking and travel. I agree on using a liner of some sort.

I think the cloth pads are expensive. What works also is an old running sock (the kind people used to wear when playing tennis where there's no cuff). Thick cotton ones are better here.

Hold sock so that you are facing the foot, heel at the the top. Fold the top (where the hem is) down in back. Tack down or not, as you wish--instant pad.

Strange Bear 05/11/04 07:22 PM

The Keeper is rubber. I made my cloth pads out of several layers of white flannel. They have lasted several years. Both are more comfortable for me than tampons or pads.

Montana Mom 05/11/04 07:29 PM

Rubber, silicone...don't want that anywhere near my cervex, thank you very much :D

I guess my bottomline advice is to use something already in your home (old socks, old cloth diapers, etc) rather than buy into something new. If it makes you feel fancier cut several layers to look like "pads" and stitch them together. :)

Tango 05/11/04 07:42 PM

Depending on one's flow a pad can be as simple as an absorbent paper towel rolled over several layers of toilet tissue. Instant disposable that is Earth friendly. These work fine for me every day after the second day of my period. I was thinking about using tube socks for my heavy days- thanks for your input RAC.

Jodi 05/11/04 08:18 PM

Thank you, ladies, for all the advice and recommendations! I have actually ordered some cloth pads to try and the Diva cup to try. I also found a ladies website on how to make your own pads. I need to get a sewing machine for that, though. Me and sewing machines have never gotten along...but, maybe it's time for me to try again. Might have to look into an inexpensive one to dabble on.

Thanks again! And, thanks for the sock idea. Never thought of that!


Jodi

Urban Dreamer 05/12/04 08:22 AM

Jodi,
can you share the web site you found about making your own?

i also wondered about the keeper, but never got around to buying one.

what do you ladies do with the homemade or cloth pads when you change them out? wrap in something? put in purse? ( i don't carry a purse). do they seem to have that sorta 'dried blood' smell until you can wash them out?

LWMSAVON 05/12/04 08:31 AM

here's a link to a site that has patterns for the menustrual pads as well as diapers, nursing pads, etc.

http://www.angelfire.com/biz/mothers...ds/mypatt.html

JessicaCat 05/12/04 08:48 AM

Thanks to everyone here, I started using cloth pads about 6 months ago.

I only spent about $10-$15 to make my own, and wound up with 15 of them which is more than enough for me.

I bought 2-3 yards of white flannel, and one yard of coca cola table cloth for the inside line :) and some velcro for the "wings".

When I need to change, I rinse them out in cold water and a little soap and scrub. 99.9% of the time it all comes out in the rinse. Then I keep them in a small pail with cold water and a little detergent until I do my whites. They can be put in a dryer on low to medium and no melting :)

I have to thank all of you who turned me onto this. The money Im saving is incredible. Now I just need a substitute for Midol :)

JessicaCat

Unregistered-1427815803 05/12/04 11:21 AM

I made my own ....
 
and I will never go back to store bought pads again. After 5 kids tampons just are not comfortable to me anymore. Store bought pads of any kind rub me raw...always have. So instead of dishing out $$ I just took a bought one and used it to make my own. I used fleece on the back of them and have had no leaks. My flow is heavy to say the least. One thing I have noticed since I switched is that I don't cramp anywhere like I used to and instead of 6-7 days I'm down to 4-5. It's not that big of a deal to wash them. I throw them in a bucket and just toss them in. My 2 teenage dd's are even using them now and like them better too. Best part is the $$ I'm saving every month.

Jodi 05/12/04 11:25 AM

Here's the site I found to someone who shows you how to make your own pads. This is one reason i want to buy myself a basic sewing machine.

http://www.diapersewing.com/clothpads.htm


Jodi

Unregistered-1427815803 05/12/04 12:00 PM

I used a sponge for a while. It was quite effective until my flow started to get heavier, so I gave up. They were natural sea sponges. Can't remember the internet company I ordered them from, it was quite a while ago. It's just another option but more natural feeling than the keeper.
T

Grandmotherbear 05/12/04 07:02 PM

Ah, yes, riding the cotton pony...I had a VERY heavy flow- like thru a super tampon and overflowing a super pad every hour on the hour for the first 48-72 hours...I wasn't wearing pads at night because they were useless, just a stack of towels on the bed- I have no sewing machine and am totally non sewing so this is what I did- (thinking back on my welfare mother days when my flow was so minimal I just used a couple washclothes stuffed down my panty)
1. Went to the dollar store and bought a waterproof baby lap pad and a pack of a dozen flannel 12inch by 12 inch cloths.
2. Went to the fabric store and bought a remnant of about 2 feet of polarteclike non cotton fleece.
3. Went home. Trimmed the lap pad into 5 pieces sized like a super pad. This became the base. Foldered 2 washclothes on top. Folded 1-2 flannel cloths on top. Cut several pieces from the polaetec like fleece and added that on top at night.
No, I don't wear skin tight jeans. It worked with my loosefitting pants. The stains have a hard time coming out but I don't use those cloths for anything else. I had moderate cramps in the past, which went away when I started wearing the cloth.
Someday I will relate the story of the keeper like deviceand the 4 day Boy Scout Canoe Trip through the Okeefenokee Swamp....

Greenwitch 05/12/04 07:17 PM

I started using The Keeper at my gyno's recommendation 10 years ago. Still have the same one and never a problem. It has saved me a fortune by not having to buy commerical pads or tampons. It is also great if you travel to countries that are clueless about women's cycles (ie: India or Asia). It is 100% safe and no odor like with cotton pads. You do have to be comfortable with your body to use it. You can get more information at: www.thekeeper.com or www.divacup.com.

Peg 05/13/04 12:57 PM

I made my own several years ago and although they're getting a little frayed around the edges (just zigzaged the edges), they still work fine. I used a dark red-colored fabric, so I can't see it if they are a little stained! I may be throwing them away pretty soon as I seem to be going menopausal (said in the same way as "going postal").

Jaclynne 05/13/04 01:14 PM

Peg - "the seem to be " stage of menapause can last a lonnnnnngggg time!

Now, to the Keeper/Diva cup.... I bought the Diva, its silicone and I'm allergic to latex in the Keeper. I've never been succesful at wearing/insertion yet. No children, but over 30, with very heavy flow so I didn't dare get the smaller size. But I should have. But everyone says there's not much difference in the size. I've never been comfortable while wearing tampons either but I thought that was the super aborbency thing causing the problems. I guess not. :(

Does wearing the 'homemade' products really lessen flow and cramps? Really?

Thank goodness this doesn't happen every month anymore. I've skipped at least three a year for the last 4. I'm ready to be done with this.

Life is good! :) :) :)
Halo

Mike in Pa 05/13/04 01:33 PM

Well I had to do it ... you knew we would (men reading this post). So I clicked on the topic and read the first sentence ... MAN ... I couldn't get back out of here fast enough! Figured I'd return REAL QUICK and let you know.

apirlawz 05/13/04 01:51 PM

:haha: You're a brave man, Mike!! :haha:

Jodi, no need to appologise to the guys for being a normal, healthy woman! Ick factor? You bet, but hey, it's natural!! And besides, ya did warn them!! :p

ciao!
April

Jodi 05/13/04 06:05 PM

hehehe..yes, I warned them! Don't look or you'll regret it!

I got a small order of GladRags in the mail today. The cloth ones you buy are expensive, but it will give me a guide to making my own.

I also bought a sewing machine yesterday! Got a great buy on one at Wallie World...a Brother for 70.00. Now, I just need to learn how to use it so I can make my own...and make other things as well. Always meant to learn how to sew...now I have the machine so i better get going!


Thanks for all the tips, ladies!


Jodi

MomInGa 05/14/04 03:17 PM

lol!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mike in Pa
Well I had to do it ... you knew we would (men reading this post). So I clicked on the topic and read the first sentence ... MAN ... I couldn't get back out of here fast enough! Figured I'd return REAL QUICK and let you know.


Lol Mike
I was just thinking.... wonder how many men looked at the thread just cause they were warned not to.
(grins)

Urban Dreamer 05/14/04 03:35 PM

Sarah,
I used to get heavy periods, but now i take fish oil and Cod liver oil, the essential fatty acids help with the body in so many ways. you could take up to a tablespoon a day of the good stuff, and then in the summer cut back on the cod liver oil and go mostly to fish oil, up to say, 6grams a day (gelcaps are ok if you cant swallow the liquid). send me an email for more info. NO, your periods shouldn't be super heavy. i can wear one pad for like, half a day even on heavy days now.
lisabujak@comcast.net

Murdock 05/14/04 03:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MomInGa
Lol Mike
I was just thinking.... wonder how many men looked at the thread just cause they were warned not to.
(grins)

Answer : All of us... :haha:

And since nobody else has said it yet.... EWWWWWW!!!!

Please proceed.

Michael W. Smith 05/14/04 03:43 PM

For women only.
 
Well, yeah, we ARE going to look when told NOT to! :haha: No problem that I see with this thread at all (I'm married + growing up I had 3 sisters & Mom).

I do have a question concerning Greenwitch's comment "It is also great if you travel to countries that are clueless about women's cycles (India or Asia)." Just curious, but are you saying they don't have any pads or tampons for sell in the stores over there? I guess I assumed everybody is the same as in the US. Can you tell I've never been out of the country other than to Hawaii?!?

After reading this, I must say quite a few of you gals have come up with ingenius solutions. However, I'm still glad I'm a guy and don't have that "problem"!! :eek:

MomInGa 05/14/04 03:46 PM

lol!!
 
The truth is out..... they are ALL looking!

Men, just overgrown cute boys.

They cant help themselves. :)


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