
01/02/12, 06:21 PM
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: North Carolina
Posts: 1,782
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Originally Posted by Wind in Her Hair
I am sorry so many have such bad feelings about 2011.
but....
 I don't believe in ever wishing one day of life away or looking back with regret. Not ever.
Wishing 2011 away? Never. Was it easy or pleasant or profitable? Depends entirely on your perspective and what you choose to focus on -and then - if your head is in the right place and you have your priorities in line - it really doesn't matter what happened.
I find life a much more pleasant and satisfying experience by focusing on the Gift I was offered by enduring the difficulty. The rainbow after the storm if you will.
and then I believe in expressing gratitude for everything - the good, the bad, the easy, the difficult, the stumbles, the triumphs, the losses, the joys and the pain -and the Grace to endure.
Enjoy EVERY year, every day - today -this minute. Remember, we are not guaranteed even that.
My motto for 2012 is:
"Its not that life has been easy, perfect, or exactly as expected.
I just choose to be happy and grateful no matter how it all turns out."
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No I am not thankful for the experience of watching the love of my life suffer for 3 months in shear torture and die..I certainly wish the painful days he struggled to breath away..
"Depends entirely on your perspective and what you choose to focus on -and then - if your head is in the right place and you have your priorities in line - it really doesn't matter what happened.
I guess my head was not in the right place or my perspective was wrong , because I think what happened this year when I lost my love matters..
i didn't enjoy watching him suffer & die..That all sounds good but it doesn't sit well when your year has been pure hell..
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