
04/18/11, 10:39 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: wouldn't you like to know der, eh? Zone 3b/4a
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[QUOTE=ronbre;5076043]as far as the unfriendly comment, I don't find that here, but people aren't as nosey as they are some other places..so maybe that seems unfriendly?? we just give people their space.
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You know . . . . I think that's a lot of it. I never thought of it until now, but Maybe a lot of what seems like unfriendliness may be respect for personal space. Every culture respects a different amount of personal space. In KS, if you were new to a church, you could expect everybody in the church to come up and introduce themselves, invite you to the next potluck, and shower you with attention for at least the first several months. It could be overwhelming but it made you feel welcome. They did ask a lot of questions - which people up here might consider being nosey. At the two churches I've been to here, the people in the neighboring pews said a quick "hello" and, after attending regularly for a year, we were asked if we might like to be on the calling list. The person who asked if we wanted to be on the calling list first said "I don't mean to overstep my bounds, but I thought you might like to be on our calling list. You certainly don't have to give me your phone number if you don't want to." I was like "are you kidding? Of course I want to be on the calling list!" That just happened yesterday. I was overjoyed. All this time, I thought it was that they didn't like me. Maybe that's not it. It's a totally different culture.
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Originally Posted by Jim-mi
A good amount of that unfriendly thing comes the attitude of those coming into the area.
The snowmobilers with their big bucks of equipment and their attitude of "Their feces don't stink" and their attitude that they can go 'anywhere' they want--on private land . . .off the SM trails.
. . . . . .Their attitudes have a way of making locals a bit unhappy........
Many many 'tourists' have attitudes that....suck...
So yes, those that BS the locals are gonna get it returned.......
Those that consider the locals as backwoods hicks are not gonna have a good time...........
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Oh, yeah. They tend to get in a lot of accidents, too. When I worked in the ER, we pretty much assumed every snowmobile accident victim was a tourist unless they told us otherwise. They sure have some expensive gear - it's a shame when we have to cut it off of them.
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