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Old 05/26/14, 07:51 AM
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My wife keeps telling me she wasn't a city kid although you can see the cities water tower across the corn field across the road from her child hood home on 2 acres. When we met and married she lived in a subdivision with homes so close together I could spit two ways from the front porch and hit one on each side. She had been married be fore and I really got tired of hearing me and ex hubby were going to do this or that when I mentioned planting a garden building a garage or what ever.
After listening to that crap for 4 months I told her it was time to get our home.
Took us 9 month of B/S once we found the place but now it is ours. First thing she loved was the wild life that come to our front door to feed on shrubs planted there.

How to get your significant other into homesteading - The Great Outdoors

How to get your significant other into homesteading - The Great Outdoors

Deer in the back yard even bucks.

How to get your significant other into homesteading - The Great Outdoors

Wild turkeys pass thru along the creek in flocks and all alone.

How to get your significant other into homesteading - The Great Outdoors

They bring their babies to show them off to us too.

How to get your significant other into homesteading - The Great Outdoors

Even the Great Blue Heron comes up out of the creek to preen near the house.

How to get your significant other into homesteading - The Great Outdoors

What that has did is get her to want to go for walks thru the woods and vacant field next door to see what critters are about and what they are doing. Got her wanting to plant flowers and shrubs where she spends a whole bunch of time fiddling around. She has 3800 sq.ft. of perennial flower beds and I don't know how many shrubs.

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She isn't interested in chickens, goats, sheep, cows or horses.
Her passion is honey bees to the point we were over 100 colonies in 2 counties in out yards. She like us raising queen bees likes the honey and is a fanatic with the stuff we sell to the point it drives me crazy with her wants on straining it cause there is a air bubble in it.

She makes the syrup to feed them in the spring and fall. she makes the pollen patties we give them.

With a little baby it is hard to spend much time outdoors doing chores. There are enough to do inside fixing meals caring for the baby doing laundry and keeping the house clean and tidy. Allow the child to grow and start walking before pushing too hard.

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Old 05/30/14, 12:53 PM
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You have to both be in agreement on what kind of life you want. If she don't want to be involved she needs to be honest and you have to accept it and know all the work is on you.
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she just doesn't seem to be interested at all and was wondering what's some good ways to get her to experience new things and possibly like some of them
Try talking to her and asking her what she might be interested in. Ask her to come out and help you and be involved in the day to day tasks around your place.
Understand that with caring for a 6 month old, she may not have the interest or energy to do anything else.
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Give her time, caring for an infant is exhausting. It took me a good 9 months before I really looked up at the world outside my first baby. She has plenty of time later to decide what country living things she wants to do.
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Made this for the wife from your ideas of a little garden flower bed thing and saw this online and liked the idea and made my own improvements right now there's just strawberries in it but she seemed pretty excited about it
Oh I really like that. I'll have to see if my husband can bring some pallets home from work. I've been eyeing that style of herb planting anyway and trying to figure out a design. Right now I have everything in pots or the main garden.
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Old 05/31/14, 12:07 PM
 
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Oh I really like that. I'll have to see if my husband can bring some pallets home from work. I've been eyeing that style of herb planting anyway and trying to figure out a design. Right now I have everything in pots or the main garden.
It works really well once the roots get established and looks neat to
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I love your idea of using it for strawberries because they take up so much square footage in the ground vs vertical plants.
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You may also have to resign yourself to the idea that she will never truly become interested in it. Good luck.
After skimming all the posts this is the one I found to really ring true!
My experience - 50 plus years of marriage (to the same woman), living here, on our 57 acres, for over 43 years. During this time I've had animals, gardens (veggie and flower), built buildings, done haying, still cut firewood, and enjoy all the advantages with hopefully managing the disadvantages rural living has.
The wife? She enjoys the "living in the country" idea and let us leave it at that!
Oh, she does enjoy the veggie garden(s) as long as I plant, tend, pick the bounty, cook it and put it on the table.
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Old 06/08/14, 07:10 AM
 
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After skimming all the posts this is the one I found to really ring true!
My experience - 50 plus years of marriage (to the same woman), living here, on our 57 acres, for over 43 years. During this time I've had animals, gardens (veggie and flower), built buildings, done haying, still cut firewood, and enjoy all the advantages with hopefully managing the disadvantages rural living has.
The wife? She enjoys the "living in the country" idea and let us leave it at that!
Oh, she does enjoy the veggie garden(s) as long as I plant, tend, pick the bounty, cook it and put it on the table.
I needed to know this trick lol
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Old 08/11/14, 06:51 AM
 
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Well as the days grow longer I believe I've found out what has her motivated flowers and chicks and I disconnected the tv
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Old 08/11/14, 07:02 AM
 
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In my opinion the best thing you could do is NEED lots of help! "Honey come hold this board for me!?" Once my wife gets going then they start seeing things differently.Of course I always make it a point to take a lot of breaks and talk about how fresh the air smells or how pretty the flower are.Works for me!


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This. Good advice. Plus some c people like being in charge , maybe let her plan, set up, and run something, like a herb garden of course help with the labor. Show of all successes.
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Old 08/11/14, 09:43 AM
 
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This. Good advice. Plus some c people like being in charge , maybe let her plan, set up, and run something, like a herb garden of course help with the labor. Show of all successes.

That's a good idea actually about the herb garden I got abunch I need to get planted might show her how to do it
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