cbcansurvive,
I just built a 12x18 pole barn and went through the same thought process as you. You can definatealy scale down the materials, there are only a few areas where sizing is critical, these are the beam along the top of the posts and the roof rafters. If you search around online, you can find calculators to calculate both of those. You will need to know what your snow load requirements are, then calculate the load each part of the building must carry to size it. For the posts themselves, the required size is determined by wind load calcs and those can get complicated. I decided I was comfortable with 4x4 posts without doing the calculations.
Here is how I did my construction. I have some photos of the construction in my blog, see link in my sig. Feel free to PM me if you have any questions.
4x4 treated posts set on a 14" precast concrete footer 3'6" underground, backfilled with soil. 6 foot post spacing. Footers only required on side walls not the middle post in the end walls. I assumed 2000psf soil, but my soil is probably much higer than this.
Single 2x12 beam at top of posts, sitting in a notch cut out of the posts. Nails/lag screws were not strong enough to carry the load alone, so I did the notch.
2x6 roof rafters spaced 12" OC for 40psf snow + 10psf dead load. 2x8 at 16OC would work too but 2x6s were a little cheaper. I had just under a 12' span on the rafters, but I left about 2' overhang either side to protect the walls. Remember to factor in the overhang for the snow load. I chose to use a shed roof so I could add another 12' side to the building later and have a gable roof. I put hurricane clips on to protect from roof uplift.
Walls got 2x4 girts at 2' spacing, sheathed with 5/8" T1-11 siding. I chose this since building was for my goats and I thought they would beat up metal siding. The plywood siding also gives greater shear strength to the building compared to metal. Considering paint it cost more though.
Roof got 7/16 OSB sheathing and asphalt shingles.
Here's a pic of the finished building, well the front of it anyway.
Here's a pic showing the framing.