Did a big thing last night...started and ran the coal stove in the basement.
I let it go out on Sunday because I forgot DH wasn't here to fill it. Well he says don't try, it's too hard.
Well my Ma is freezing and her fridge is frozen and I have no heat to thaw the buckets of ice from the animals.
So I go to start it.
I had to hook the locking trailer to the car. Figure that out. DH never let me drive it. (too hard)
Did that, drive to the wood lady. Got 20 bucks worth of wood to start the stove. Why don't we have wood? DH never cut the 50 trees he cut down into pieces.
So I come home, after maneuvering that trailer into a back up twice.......ever backed up a trailer? Hard to a newbie.
So I unload most of the wood, cut more splits out of it, load up the stove with wood and paper. After an hour I have a fire roaring, Ma and I are piling wood on it, then adding coal bits.
we work all evening, after 5 hours, I feel I can leave it to go get the kids from skiing. Then I fill it again 2 more times before going to bed.
This morning I am loading it again twice, leaving the bottom door open to draft.
Who says it's hard? Just takes time.
Plus we have seen all of DH's mistakes.