1. It depends on your own background and experience.
Are you a Southerner and love it, or do you melt when it is 80? You WILL want to be comfortable where you live! Also, do you hate the rain or hate the desert?
Part of picking out a place where you will want to be outside is picking a place where you will want to be outside!
2. Sorry, I haven't the foggiest idea about which states have little red tape!
3. I got into it because I hate cities and love to see things take shape under my hands. Also, my talents all seem to be with living things.
4. Special things. Hmm.
Did you know that the BEST thing about homesteading is the freedom? You are the boss AND the customer! If the boss is happy and so is the customer, it is the origional win-win situation!
I took an approach of one project at a time. I did it to my satisfaction, and then I chose another. It was a lot of fun!