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Old 05/04/11, 09:11 PM
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A brief history. I am 54 and my wife , Karla is 49. I have 2 grown kids, Kelsi, 23 and Zach, 21. Karl was never able to have kids of her own.

We had discussed adopting off and on since we got married 9 years ago then a year ago this past January, she came in with some kids her and a friend had found on the CPS website. We talked it over, I talked to my kids and we decided to give it a go. Zach was living here at the time and he had to take the 8 all day Saturday classes with us , which he did without much complaining.

After the classes, home inspections, home studies and everything else, Karla started turning in interests on sibling groups. We were interested in kids, up to 3 siblings from 8 up. Group after group and we were passed over for one reason or another.

Then January this year, Karla gets an email asking if we would be interested in 3 sisters, one 5 and twins, 4. A little younger that we talked about, but I said let's see what happens.

About 2 weeks later we were notified we were selected and we needed to read the case histories and such to see if we wanted to proceed, which we did and after reading, we told them we would like to meet the girls.

We met them at the foster home with their case worker, went back for more visits, then they came here for weekend visits, were here for 10 days over Spring Break and as of Good Friday, they have been placed with us permanently til adoption in November.

Here they are after Karla bought them all new sun dresses. Left to right, Kirsten, Karrissa and Kaitlynn.

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Karrissa loves all animals. She helps feed the dogs and chickens, gathers the eggs, helps in the garden and is about 80% Daddy's girl.

Kaitlynn also loves to help me with outside chores and loves music. She beats the drums we have here, strums my old guitar and plays on the piano. She also loves live bands.

Kirsten is a momma's girl. She helps with the dishes, clothes and just prefers to hang out with mom. She'll crawl up in my lap before bed, but by and large, she is all momma's girl.

They had tough beginnings with the POS parents they had, but with God's help and our love, I believe they will just fine.
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They're beautiful. God bless you & your wife as you raise these sweet girls.
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Old 05/04/11, 09:18 PM
 
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Oh how wonderful! Good luck to you all and God bless you.
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Old 05/04/11, 09:22 PM
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They are gorgeous. God Bless you and your family!
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Old 05/04/11, 09:30 PM
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Oh, they look so happy!
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Old 05/04/11, 09:31 PM
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you are a lucky family, at least till they are teenagers, then look out.
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Old 05/04/11, 09:38 PM
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They're cuties, best wishes for your new family! I'm so glad they got to stay together.
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Old 05/04/11, 09:40 PM
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Oh man! I am jealous!! I am sure that they are blessed and you are too.

Send them our way if you decide that you're too tired.
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Old 05/04/11, 09:46 PM
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Congratulations on your children! I have so much respect for people like you and your wife for opening your home and hearts to children that really need a family. God bless you and your family
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Awww, they are GORGEOUS! A great big congrats! Our 3 youngest were adopted internationally. It really is a beautiful thing!

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Old 05/04/11, 10:00 PM
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A couple more pics.

A few weeks back, we went to Burton, TX to the Cotton Gin Festival. They had a small petting zoo and here the girls got to meet a lamb. Karrissa was hands on on all the animals. And Kaitlynn got to listen to an Oompa band

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When Kelsi came home with friends for Spring Break, the girls had to show her their new jeans and boots. So Kelsi had them do a Wrangler Butts pose

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they look happy and are beautiful--how exciting.
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You are so lucky.
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May God Bless you and keep you for what you are doing for these girls. My daughter has taken in two brothers with the intent to adopt. She has never had children of her own but is confident that this is God's will for her life. I am behind her all the way but will say that it is not without problems. Pray for God's blessings on these homes as they take in children.
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Old 05/04/11, 10:11 PM
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Keeping them together is such a wonderful thing! I wish you luck on this bumpy ride.
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Old 05/04/11, 10:15 PM
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They are cute little sweeties! Sounds like they are already blessing your family!

I'm not adopting, but am helping my nephew raise his little boy, who is seven (first grade). It's definitely been a challenge, for me getting used to having a little guy in the house (I raised three girls), and for him getting used to consistent discipline. His dad's really trying, though, and that helps. We are homeschooling, and I think getting him out of the public school has helped quite a bit with the discipline issues, too. Never expected to be doing this at my age (like you, I'm 54), but I think he's going to be a blessing to us, too.

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It is awesome that they get to stay together. God bless you for taking them in. I'm sure that God will help you all in your new life
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How lucky all of you are! I wouldn't want to think of the boy trouble x's 3 though-I'm 47 and have a dd 8 and the boys' are all ready trying to get kisses(for 2 years!)
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How great for all of you.
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Adorable! You are so lucky and so are they!!

Wait til they have th eboys chasing them!!LOL
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