One year ago today

[tonasket]

Last October 25th we lost my BIL after a long bout w/pancreatic disease. Just need to say that I love you Bud, and you will never be forgotten. Hubby and I were there for your life, privelaged(sp?) to be there at your passing. Know that we take care of your mama and how your sisters and children hurt you will never happen again. We miss you Bud.

During his illness, his 3 sisters and grown children didn't care, just like his whole life. But they had to come to the hospital and Hospice home to make fools of themselves. I agree people handle things/grieve differently, but what they did to him his whole life was shameful. Today is very painful for hubby MIL and me today. Just needed to share. Words aren't coming out right. Just needed to get it off my chest. :0(

[JuliaAnn]

Oh bless your heart, I'm so sorry that your family behaved in such a cruel and selfish manner during a time that was already terrible to begin with. I will say a prayer for you, your dh and your MIL, that you be wrapped in the Lord's loving arms. Your BIL is in a place where he understands everything, and there is no anger or pain anymore. He's safe, for eternity.

I will also say a prayer for the rest of your family, too.