Is it common to REQUIRE middle school kids to shower after PE?
My son (5th grade) came home today and said his final quarter grade would be docked 2 points every day that he didn't take a shower after PE.
Now, keeping in mind we're talking 10 year olds, not to mention PE is a 20 minute class.
Am I being unreasonably annoyed here?
He's absolutely mortified at the idea.
I don't blame him. I went my entire school career and managed to avoid the gang showers.
His father is still known by the (complimentary, actually) nickname bestowed upon his anatomy 20 years ago in his high school's gang showers...
A ten year old does not need a shower after 20 minutes of activity. I do not like the concept of communal showering. It disalows any feeling of modesty. I hated it when I was younger and I hate it to this day. Also don't forget that there are many perverts out there which includes the teachers, aides, and other students. I think a note from the parent should suffice in allowing a student to skip the shower thing.
We had showers in our high school, but never once, did I see anyone using them. And I agree, exactly what kind of activity would make one absolutely NEED to take a shower after PE? I bet they sweat more during their recess / lunch breaks.
Not that I advocate a non-hygenic environment, and maybe they are trying to "teach" that in this case, but if hygiene is the point, I think it would be defeating the purpose if there are a bunch of kids in a communal shower where things like athlete's foot & other fungus stuff can be easily transfered kid to kid.
Not to mention that I would be kind'a freaked if they made me get naked with a bunch of other kids I really didn't know. Parts are parts, but come on, give a kid some privacy!
I predict future happiness for Americans if they can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people under the pretense of taking care of them. - Thomas Jefferson
Well, waaaay back when I was in Jr High we had to shower, high school too, I think 9th grade, or we'd get marked down, and I absolutely positively hated it as well. My kid's didn't have to do this when they were in school, though.
we were suppose to but seldom did. and yeah, i think its pretty demeaning. i mean, how bout suggesting all the teachers shower together before classes? some of them were not pleasant by days' end, not to mention the famous 'coffee breathers'. eww.
Yes, we were required to shower after gym class where I went to school and it was part of the grade. I actually didn't mind because I had gym first thing in the morning so I would just go to school in my pajamas sometimes and shower and put clean clothes on after gym class. It allowed me to get an extra 1/2 hour of sleep in the morning...LOL.
It's really not that big of deal...Just tell him to always wear flipflops.
For high school, it is common and should be mandatory. I mean that seriously. Not just that they get rank without it,, but it is part of the personal hygiene that they should be learning during physical education.
For primary, maybe not so much, but I can understand teachers taking any opportunity they can to get the kids to wash, since many of them won't do it otherwise anyhow any time.
my high school (10 th grade up) had individual showers in the locker room and we were to shower, but most just changed clothes behind the pulled curtain and left. No point plus or minus.
I know the ice rink locker room has a large communal shower in each locker room, so I suppose those hockey teams shower together there, but I don't know if they have underwear on while doing so and then change or not.
I also think 20 minute for a PE class and shower is outlandish to say the lease.
"Live your life, and forget your age." Norman Vincent Peale
We were supposed to shower in high school. I don't know if anyone actually showered. I can tell you that there was no way I was going to get naked in front of others. I wouldn't even allow it for a high schooler. Deodorant is a good thing to have. One can clean/rinse off in the sink.
So.... what did the principal say when you went in and told him/her that you would not allow your child to undress in public?
Moms don't look at things like normal people.
I can remember in Elementary School - perhaps in 5th grade of being given the OPTION - if you WANT to take a shower, you can. If not, that was okay too.
Even in high school, showers were NOT required. I kinow several of the guys did shower, but I NEVER did. Just changing my clothes was enough to make me uncomfortable - I was VERY modest. Having to take REQUIRED showers surely would have put me over the edge.