You are Unregistered, please register to use all of the features of Homesteading Today!    
Homesteading Forum

Go Back   Homesteading Forum > General Homesteading Forums > Countryside Families

LinkBack Thread Tools Rate Thread
Old 12/17/08, 11:30 AM
Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: West Central Minnesota
Posts: 1,565
Gift ideas for the Mother in law who has everything?

Okay, I'm stumped.

We drew names for Christmas gift giving this year and I drew my mother in law's name. Now I am stumped. So is everyone else in the family. And this is ONE of the reasons why I hate the gift exchanging part of Christmas.

MIL already has everything she could possibly want or need.

She enjoys a little bit of gardening (during the 3 months of thaw here in MN!)
She enjoys her grandkids.
She enjoys reading, but I am not sure what she has and hasn't read.
She likes birds but already has a million bird houses and feeders from previous gift-giving occasions.

I can't understand people who don't have hobbies, lol. Hubby and I have at least a dozen hobbies, each, and we are so EASY to buy for!

I'm open to suggestions. She is the BEST mil and I'd rally like to get her something special.
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 11:37 AM
thaiblue12's Avatar
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: CO
Posts: 3,865
Well how about a gift card to a bookstore, or a nursery?
I usually do not like gift cards htey do not seem as personal, but sometimes when you get a hard to buy for person they are the way to go.
If you really hate that idea how about getting a wicker basket and putting in seeds, a gardening book, trovel, gardening gloves and things like that?
You may not copy my posts or pictures without my consent on this board or any other.
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 11:39 AM
Join Date: May 2002
Location: Adirondacks
Posts: 6,775
Gift certificate for a garden center.

Gift certificate for a book store.

Coupon stating that you will take her out to dinner at her favorite restaurant.
"Never stop questioning - curiosity has its own reason for existence." Albert Einstein

"I used to be a terror, now I am a tired man" Jim Croce
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 11:40 AM
LamiPub's Avatar
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: mo Zone 5b
Posts: 1,729
Bookmarks, a neck pillow or a reading light? You could cross stitch her a personalized bookmark or if you are artistic make her another type of bookmark. How about making her a calendar with pics of all the grandkids? A magazine script to a garden magazine? What music does she like? You can get her some cds and put in a pretty gift basket with bookmarks and flower seeds or something.
"Mama always says stupid is as stupid does" Forrest Gump

"It is discouraging to think how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit." Noel Coward's Blithe Spirits
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 11:51 AM
Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: West Central Minnesota
Posts: 1,565
How about making her a calendar with pics of all the grandkids?
Great idea. I thought of this last year and intended to take pictures of the kids throughout the year. In the end I forgot to do it and don't have enough good pics now. Definitely on th list for next year though. My brother and his wife used to do this for my mom and it was her absolute favorite gift.

%^$#@ those who have produced grand kids. We haven't.
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 11:51 AM
BamaNana's Avatar  
Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Central Alabama
Posts: 1,275
Have someone make her a special DVD "movie" of all her children and grandkids throughout the years.

She would love it!!!

I would be more than happy to make one for you... free of course!

Just get me the pictures... either snail mail or on line w/photobucket

If you act NOW we have time!!!
You know you're getting old when you stoop to tie your shoelaces and wonder what else you could do while you're down there.
George Burns
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 12:05 PM
Ravenlost's Avatar
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: MS
Posts: 24,572
How about a subscription to a bird magazine? Or a book on birdwatching, or one to identify birds?
I'm running so far behind I thought I was first!
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 12:09 PM
Join Date: Jun 2004
Posts: 1,435
I got my 'has everything' MIL a digital picture frame - we preloaded it with pictures of all of her grandkids and great grandkids. She loves having framed pictures of the family setting around her house but She's running out of places to put up new pictures of everybody, so we thought a frame that would hold a bunch of pictures would be perfect for her.

If you have spending limits for your gift exchange, you might want to look at doing the same thing with one of those digital keychains.
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 12:13 PM
BlueberryChick's Avatar
Join Date: May 2008
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 2,672
Bird food for the feeders?

“Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, ‘What! You too? I thought I was the only one.”
- C S Lewis

Spinner's Lap Cloths (and more) at Bede Sisters
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 12:44 PM
Join Date: May 2002
Location: PA
Posts: 845
You didnt mention price but for a gardener this is a good gift
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 12:44 PM
Posts: n/a
How about a tape of all of those grandchildren saying "Merry Christmas's what I love the BEST about you." wrap the tape up and attach it to the new bird seed mouse-proof container full of seed

(You know, that sounds SO good, I think I'll ask for that myself next year) LOL.
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 12:55 PM
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: KY
Posts: 12,678
I'm just going to offer one thought - think comfort. . . perhaps a soft fleece throw with her initials/name, or soft flannel pj's with soft socks to match. Comfort is a personal luxury especially as we age.
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 01:02 PM
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Western Wisconsin
Posts: 205
paint by number kit

woodburning kit

word search/crossword puzzle books

puzzle of birds or garden theme

garden sculpture

pretty smelling lotion

Animal slippers!!! I gave a pair of animal slippers (bought in the kids dept.) for my grandmother when she was still alive....what ahoot! She loved them!

Lottery tickets/scratch offs....we do this for dad on fathers day and his b-day. $20 worth. *shrug..... its fun, and heck! ya never know!

Subscription to birds and bloom magazine or country woman or one of those type.

Maple syrup

Cheese and fruit

Restraunt gift card
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 01:58 PM
mammabooh's Avatar
Metal melter
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Jeromesville, Ohio (northcentral)
Posts: 7,152
I once bought my grandma who has everything a pair of brightly-colored garden clogs. She absolutely LOVED them. I don't know that she ever wore them, but she sure liked to look at them sitting by her door. She pointed them out to people when they visited and told folks that I bought them for her. Sigh...she's in a nursing home now. I should go see if they are still sitting by her door so I can bring them home and sit them by my door. Now I'm getting all weepy.
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 03:28 PM
watcher's Avatar
de oppresso liber
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 16,518
My first thought was pictures in frames or an electronic frame.

My second was a magazine subscription. That's one of my favorite things to get as well as give. Every month you are reminded of the person.
Remember, when seconds count. . .
the police are just MINUTES away!

Congress has no power to appropriate this money as an act of charity. Every member upon this floor knows it. . .Davy Crockett
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 03:32 PM
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: MN
Posts: 1,885
Maybe a membership to the MN Horticultural Society? or something from the MN Master Gardeners.
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 03:47 PM
RedTartan's Avatar
Icelandic Sheep
Join Date: May 2006
Location: Northeast Ohio
Posts: 3,344
Binoculars and a bird book for her area. Binoculars sell for $10 on up so they're actually an affordable gift.


Etsy Shop:
Currently have Icelandic roving & (for a limited time) 100% Suri Alpaca roving.
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 03:50 PM
LisaInN.Idaho's Avatar
Naturally Twirly
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: far north Idaho
Posts: 14,412
We have the same problem and this year made a contribution in my MIL's name to the local food bank. In years past we've done the same with Heifer Project International.
Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 03:53 PM
ArkansasLady's Avatar
Join Date: Jan 2003
Posts: 1,812
we had some photo mugs made up for our people who have everything...

Reply With Quote
Old 12/17/08, 04:09 PM
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: NE Utah
Posts: 53
For those that have everything--I try to come up with a way to give them my time... so with a reader--you could coupon her that during each month you'll both read the same book and then meet for lunch to discuss... or coupon for helping her get the pre-garden setup work done... or a new raised bed or something fun like that... where you are spending time together.
My mom LOVES the digital photo thing--I set her computer up where her screen saver goes through her favorite photos and she leaves her computer on now all day and will still stop and watch sometimes as the pics go by... so the digital photo frame with a promise to help collect some of her favorite photos from all in the family to put on it (you could ask them all to bring their greatest ones on memory sticks to the family gathering).
Good luck--I know you'll discover the perfect thing--something will just hit you (I always pray and ideas come or I'll be in the right place at the right time to find something that they end up loving).
Merry Christmas!!
Reply With Quote

Thread Tools
Rate This Thread
Rate This Thread:

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 01:47 PM.